Chemical sex, chemical swinging

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  1. Northguy

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    Chemical means that: you have planed to have a sex with your partner or what you chose ,when both or all is high on some stuff (you know what i mean). Like- getting high and than "show must go on".
    So enyone tried ? What experience? I know for guys is higher libido. How that is for women?
    I heard about parties. So wishing to hear some experiences...
     
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    I remember the late 60s. Girls would show up at parties, and want to smoke and drink. This one guy always told them, they had to pay up. They were more than willing to give a little pussy to party.
     
  3. VeronicaDavis10

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    Hello! I do not encourage or condone the use of illegal drugs or substances to enhance the sexual experience. It is important to prioritize safe and consensual sexual activities. It is also important to note that drugs can have different effects on different people, and feelings can vary greatly. Rather than relying on chemicals, communication and mutual consent are key to a healthy and satisfying sexual experience.
     
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    For starters, do it with just yourselves at home to make sure it's all good! Never experiment with new or different goodies and your wife's ass in a strange place if you can help it!
     
  5. straightma1e

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    People use a substance of some kind with the intent of feeling good. Feeling good can lead to enhanced sexual experiences. It may be alcohol or drugs. Alcohol consumption lowers inhibitions which tends to let people do things they normally wouldn't do. It can impair sexual performance too. There are a lot of prescription drugs used for making sex better. ED meds are some. So are medicines that infuse hormones that the body doesn't produce anymore. Then there is cannabis, legal in many locations now, which amps libido and enhances sex.

    To answer the OP's question of has anybody tried my answer is yes I have. I take prescription medicine intended to keep my prostate from enlarging. The side benefit is a better erection. A lot of men do the opposite and take the medicine because they can't have an erection on their own. I also use cannabis for relaxation and enjoyment. A side benefit is sex is better when high. Alcohol consumption is no good for me. I leave it alone when I want to have sex with a partner. But a combination of Ed meds, CBD, and weed give me a great high and great experience when having sex. I don't always have sex when I get high. On the other hand I can have great sex without getting high. But put that combination together sometimes sex becomes a very memorable experience.
     
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    The great days of the 60's... How I miss them
     
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    Yes, there was just something about Hippie chicks in their hip hugging bell bottoms.
     
  8. Lespaulgui

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    Still to this day, I love seeing it. I've been going to a few '60-'s dances where most that attend have the hip huggers on. Love it.
     
  9. Bocci

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    For a bunch of free-thinking liberal-types, the swingers crowd seems to regularly spout and adhere to boilerplate about “drugs are bad, M-Kay.”
    We seek out people who can responsibly enjoy both. We’ve used weed, lsd, and mdma. All have their benefits. We’ve used weed and mdma while swinging. We are cautious folks who only use lower doses and never lose control or do anything we would not be willing to do sober. Our choices heighten the experiences and relax inhibitions in that we are more honest and open in our desires and decisions. We tend to shy away from alcohol for several reasons. It does impair judgement and can have much worse effects on people’s personality.
    Foursomes with mdma, vitamin water, fresh fruit, and menthol cough drops make for hours of love and ecstasy.
     
  10. straightma1e

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    I'm mildly surprised at your observation. I would think the swinger community would be pro use especially cannabis. As you say using responsibly and at lower doses really enhances sexual experiences. But as I look back at my in-laws secret escapades as swingers they only used alcohol and never more than socially. They were totally against weed or any other hallucinogenic drugs.

    I've found that one doesn't need to "get high" such as a couch lock high but use just enough for the sexual effect. I've experimented with different dosages of cannabis and found a little can go a long way. I can stay very cognizant, alert, and relaxed while feeling the enhanced sexual feelings cannabis gives me. I only use edibles and when I use enough to couch lock myself I still get the libido enhancement. But I wouldn't want to go to couch lock if I were in a swinger environment.
     
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    Fair enough. We don’t use weed much. The response, though sometimes very enjoyable, can vary to much even with the same strain. And dosage is sometimes to hard to gauge (is it two or four puffs with this one?) mdma is perfect for a couple or a foursome. LSD has been very intimate for the two of us.
     
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    I understand the dosage amount when vaping or smoking. With edibles it is easier to gauge the amount of THC ingested. I just have to wait longer for the effect to set in. But when it does . . . . . .
     
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    Yeah, we tried edibles a couple of times when we were passing through Colorado. I seem to recall we enjoyed them well enough and they did add to our sexual fun that evening but I guess it wasn’t enough that we sought them out again. What other chems have you mixed with sex/swinging?
     
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  14. Twogigahz

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    More or less, you find what works and how long .. I stick with the same thing, I know how it goes and how long it takes to kick in and how long it lasts... I use the basic delta 8 gummies, half of a 25mg....wait an hour, take another half. It's just a warm comfortable buzz - quite the sex enhancer, too.
     
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    What’s delta 8?
     
  16. Twogigahz

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    THC gummy. They can sell them here since they are hemp derived. Their effect is more warm and relaxing after an hour or so instead of just getting stoned...
     
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    Maybe we’ll check them out someday. We don’t care for getting stoned at all.
     
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  18. Twogigahz

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    Yeah, a gummy and a drink or two, very relaxing and makes me horny as hell, but you have to give it time, not take more.. I haven't tried the deta 9, I hear they are a little different. I just hate the whole smoke thing...other than its effective delivery...
     
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    So in relation to this thread, is this something you’ve used while swinging? If so, did the other participants use it as well?
     
  20. Twogigahz

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    Nope, no swinging here. Just my two cents....
     

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