Did you ever catch your s/o cheating, or have you been caught cheating? Why did you or spouse cheat and were you able to get past this bump in the road. What were the circumstances? How did you work it out?
My ex drunk-dialed her lover at 4:00 AM to pledge her undying love and affection; his wife put her on speakerphone.
Well sorry to hear but I know you can walk away and hold your head up high because you did your best.