hello all, new here to the forums. I have a question for you, its actually about a friend/for a friend. A while back my mate and his girlfriend had a huge argument bla bla bla and he ended up breaking up with her, she was very upset about this as you could imagine. Anyway it was a couple of weeks later and my mate was out at a local night club and he happened to bump into her!! Apparently she had a few to many to drink and said a few nasty things and walked off. Later that night my mate bumped into her friends who were really worried because they could not find her. Anyway she had left and went home with another friend of ours and this friend is known for been one seedy man lol. My mate was very pissed off when he found out and rang the other bloke and asked why he took her back to his place and his response was oh she was very drunk I thought I better do the right think and bring her back to mine where its safe lol. Anyway my mate caught a taxi to the other blokes house picked her up and took her home, they are now back together and happy. My mate has asked her several times did anything happen between you and the other bloke and she answers with a no he was been all seedy and trying to kiss me but nothing happened. When my mate caught the taxi over to our other dodgy mates house to pick her up she was in his bed!!! What do you guys think? Sus situation? My mate does not no what to do, he is not sure if he should speak to our other mate and ask truthfully if anything happened. Anyway would be good to get opinions on the topic. Cheers.
Sorry Glen you have me there, my bad that was rude of me. Hello all My name is Tom I'm from Victoria Australia and I'm sorry about that huge essay I just wrote for you all to read
you need to convince your friend to drop it.....no good will come of further investigation..... sure , it was shitty of buddy to possibly fuck her while she was too drunk....break the friendship with that douche nozzle but girls cant be blamed for getting molested while drunk....its all on the the dude doing the molesting if your friend needs to feel better tell him to get side cutters and cut the valve stems off of buddies car...its a 25 dollar fix per tire but an incredible pain in the ass to do it
If they were broke up at the time then nobody was cheating on anybody. This is the kind of things that happen when people play the break up and get back together game. If everytime they have a disagreement with each other they decide to break up then he can expect more of this to happen. The other guy was just doing what so many guys would do in this situation. Taking advantage of a person when they are vunerable and looking for attention to get his rocks off. Nothing surprising here.
They broke up. Even if he calls kissing cheating, they broke up. Just because he may have been too hung up on her to grab a one night stand while they were broken up does not mean it would be wrong of her to get laid as a newly single chick because they broke up. And did he stay true to his EXgirl the whole time? Male, single, clubbing, and sill rebounding, are you sure he is the saint here? Or is he just playing the victim because he's still hurt by the original fight, the break up, or seeing her possibly moving on?
If she was too drunk to make decisions and the guy knew that, then this is a case of sexual assault, not cheating.
1. you mate is probably you 2. your girlfriend was in his bed cos they'd just had a shag, sorry 'your mates' girlfriend 3. this kind of thing: Means anytime she wants to shag him again, just blame alcohol or this other guy for being a sleeze, then its not her fault.....if you, sorry 'your mate' finds out
"he ended up breaking up with her... he is not sure if he should speak to our other mate and ask truthfully if anything happened." Your mate has no business tracking down his girlfriend's prior sex partners and quizzing them about what happened. They were broken up at the time, therefore this guy counts as "prior sex partner" (prior to their current commitment). If "seeding kissing, but nothing happened" is her story, then that's her story and your mate best stick with the official story.
