I've noticed that in romantic/erotic movies and TV shows that the woman always has to be coerced by the men. They are portrayed as being uncertain, and as being in need of someone to show them what it is they want! In other words they are made out to be stupid, and incapable of realizing subtle seductive advances and instead taking them at face value. Obviously in real life, women(and anyone else) have a very good idea of a man's intentions straight away (before they open their mouth), and decide immediately to either get involved, or not get involved. Clearly it isn't as entertaining this way(in real life), as some people like a long drawn out chase. To name a few; I've seen this being the case in Nip/Tuck season 4, with Christian and Michelle, the 'Unfaithful' movie, and in 'Home and Away', when Brax meets Charlie. So is it really that possible to change a woman's mind, or is that something that only happens on TV?
Obviously it is possible for a mind to change. She might change hers if you change something about yours.
I am like a bull when I have my mind made up. No one changes it without challenges, meaning if they can support their thoughts and give me a reason to believe them then possibly but not easy without such. Most women I know are strong willed and maybe that's because those are the ones I attract to for friendship or maybe we are just that way but TV likes to see it differently. I won't say my mind won't change but I think things through and if you don't and I can see that then it's hard to make mine go your way. I love challenge and that means in my friendships and relationships. If I was to tell you something I believe and you just went with it I would be a little hard pressed to hang out with you, I hate yes men and yes women. I like people who know who they are and what they want.
Yeahh, not really sure what types of movies OP is watching. Usually when I see a movie with a sex scene, the sex is mutual and both the man and women want each other. Nobody has to convince the other to have sex with them..
....sounds like Asian porn. Er, I mean. How would I know ._. But, it does, the women always act victimized or like they want to push the man away or as if they are being hurt, kinda.
What if they've been married for 30 years? What if they're both drunk one night? Does there always have to be an explicit "yes"?
so the man asks over and over for sex and eventually the woman gives in and that is wrong? when a woman asks me over and over for a massage and finally I give in and give her a massage and she is right? As soon as the woman holds value of sex then there is a problem but BEFORE PEOPLE FREAK I also hold big value on treating a woman really good and trying your best in giving her what she wants and needs. Cutting off a partner is very dangerous for cheating. My ex-wife told me one night that she'd give me a bj for $20 and I asked her what time her shift started on main street. She got right mad at me but I told her if she was acting like a whore then she'd need a corner.
I thought OP was referring to first dates in movies where the guy wants sex and has to convince the woman to have sex when maybe she doesn't want to then she may or may not give in... You're talking about asking for sex in a marriage. I think that's different. If you have to ask for sex from your wife then your marriage probably has problems. And massages are not quite the same as sex.
Wait,,, if there is asking over and over again for a massage or sex there might be a problem. Either they don't know each other or they have been together Far too long. If we are talking about changing the mind over sex like tonight, nope, if I wasn't in the mood for sex he wouldn't ask over and over again to try to change my mind, reason being if I said no there would be a real good reason, as would be if he said no. Now if you mean would I try to shut it down permanently and could he change my mind,,, that would not happen unless he was caught messing around on me and then he would not be changing my mind till we straightened things out if that was possible and he went for some specific testing first. I would not allow his parts to touch mine if someone else was involved. I protect my parts
it also depends on the woman because the ex loved when I grabbed her and gave it to her...she had a safe word and I wasn't to stop till she said it even if she was yelling no....
In that case, yes I tend to play hard to get now and then and he knows it. It's more a game between us that kinda happens sometimes. There is a Not now and there is a Chuck you Farly, ya gotta catch me first, kinda thing.
