Hi there, please read this. First let me say that after you read this you can ask me anything and as long as the answer would not reveal my identity (I don't want this winding up public until I'm gone or not at all) I will answer honestly. Promise. Just like truth or dare : ) Knowing how distrustful we humans are these days, this will undoubtedly be written off as a hoax or scam. Those who realize it costs nothing to find out more, to meet in a public place (if you are close enough or care to travel).....and who contact me will be pleasantly surprised. I want to choose someone (or a couple, or family) to inherit what I have when I go, so that state/government doesn't get it. I have no children or spouse. I am not sick, and I'm not that old (56) yet, but I still want to begin planning as this will be a process that will take a few years. I estimate the value of property and cash will be between 1.5 and 2 million when the time comes (if it were today, it would be about 1.3 to 1.4). I would like to meet a few candidates, spend some time together doing normal stuff, and when I choose someone, I would like them to move in to one of my houses and live with me. Currently I have two completely paid off single family homes in Fairfax, VA, and I rent rooms in them to college students, living with them in one of the houses. In 5-6 years at my current income rate, I will be able to purchase a third house with no mortgage. That is when I want to settle down with someone good, with a good heart. And I'm sorry I haven't said it yet but I do not want to have sex, not now or ever. I am going to choose a lesbian or lesbian couple because I want to be with good people and never have to worry about disappointing them because I don't want to have sex. I was abused by older kids when I was 6, and it caused my brain to develop differently where the how when and why of using my equipment is concerned. I have no attraction to men. I am drawn to women, but do not associate using my equipment with love, caring, or even lust. That connection was simply never made for me. But I'm fine. I don't want pity. I learned how to take care of my needs alone and never have a problem doing that. But I've given up on finding a woman whom I can love and who will love me back but not want to have sex. Straight women simply want to have sex when there is love. And I've yet to find one who doesn't think it's her when I don't want to. This is not a scam. I am a real person, and not one sitting in Nigeria who will ever ask anyone to send me anything (as a former craigslist and ebay seller I've seen it all). I want to feel like I have a family for a while before it's too late. If I live with two lesbian women, we would do things together, like dinner, watching movies at home, that kind of thing. I would not ask to be involved in their sex life. That's not what I am after. I don't want to convert anyone, I don't want to watch, I just want to be with people who have good hearts. I don't have Bill Gates money to change someone's life all that much, but I'd think what I would leave them would certainly help. It would be better than the likes of Trump getting hold of it. Thanks for reading!
Would that really be love though? I've always been curious about that. Are asexual people capable of feeling more than platonic love?
Yes. I've watched interviews with couples who don't have sex.. They are still bonded in such a way you wouldn't know they were asexual. You know, they still want to hold hands and live together and sleep in the same bed and cuddle. If I think of my best friend, who is male, I still don't want to do those things with him. But I definitely love him. It is an interesting subject, I agree.
Ah, now I want to look up interviews. I've wondered before how that works, if they get emotional crushes on people, just with no sexual desire. Asexuality is an interesting concept. Perhaps because it is still really taboo, kinks are expected and accepted but the converse of that, having no sexual desire, isnt really common, i've never met anyone personally who described themselves as asexual.
Its all make believe online stuff You'd be lucky if 0.1% of the population is actually asexual Being too scared or insecure to ever do anything, or being hopped up on meds for to long isnt the same as not having sexual desire
Oh, I left out the ones that are too picky. Oh, George Clooney didnt marry me, terrr ahh, sex is soooo disgusting
Then there's pansexual which we all know you have sex with frying pans. Although I am obviously attracted to certain characteristics of a human body, sapiosexual has often entered my mind. I've read few definition, most seem to coincide with a theory that you're attracted to intelligence, which I don't think could really be me as I generally prefer the company of nitwits and idiots.
Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying. Where as a couple who say they are in romantic love, but don't have sex DO want do those things.
