Change in perspective

I have always been a sexual person since i was young, but as iv have gotten older i feel it has become more of an annoyance then something to value. pornography has certainly made me view sex in a more animalistic was thus putting me off the subject almost entirely and seen as all my sexual experiences have been pretty much a waste of time i fear my sexual interest in slowly dwindling away. it is safe to say that today's modern porn industry has turned sex into something trashy and ugly, completely taking away any sense of natural beauty that human sexual nature once had, most of that is down to religious suppression through out the ages, but also due to the sexual rebellion and rise in the last 50 years or so.
But these days i ask myself ''has sex lost all natural beauty, or has sex of the modern age disappointed me''

???

 

I think you're looking into it too much. You make it sound like rocket science, it's sex.
What you do is what you do, what they do in porn is what they do in porn..
Wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

 

Dont get me wrong , my pondering of it all does not interfere with my daily life, but i do look at life from a much larger perspective them most. if it is ''just sex'' as you stated, then that makes it nothing more then a simple impulse, an urge to be full filled, a sweet tooth to be satisfied.

Kinda sad really =(

 

As opposed to what?

 

Something that feels less compulsive and more human and balanced perhaps

 

I'm on day 3 1/2!!

That horrible sensation is over. I still want weed by at least my skin isn't crawling anymore.

 

Interesting choice of sarcasm i must say

 

Think you need to find a good partner instead of judging your views of sex on the porn industry! It sure has not lost any of its natural beauty for myself and my lady. We take every chance we can get to enjoy it together and there is nothing we enjoy more.

 

Indeed you are right. in a way i am glad my perspective has changed though as it has taught me a great deal.

 

You are watching too much porn, porn is a movie not real sex. Their job is to show their genitalia, nay, to shove that genitalia up the camera so you can see it clearly. There is no emotion.

Also what are you talking about, modern sex!. Our ancestor put that P inside that V centuries ago and we still do. You are thinking way too much into this.

 

Ha! I saw the 'you've posted here icon' on this thread and I'm thinking..."I don't recall being in that thread"

Must have right next to the Stoner Lounge Chat thread or something.

I find it fascinating that you thought it was sarcasm and not a mis-post.

 

Sex itself has not lost it's beauty, unless we as individuals let that happen.
Porn has lost what it had even tho it never had much before. Problem is porn can only do so much, now if they created a story and recreated their sex views maybe it would get better, instead most have gone to anal thinking the V has gotten boring. Really? The V boring? But we women love what it does so much, most of us anyway.
If you let porn be your guide in sex you will only want much of what you probably can't have. If you invent with your lady you can probably have all you want. Women are not all closed to such things as anal, or BDSM and those things a little more off the wall but you need to find the right partner, one who will explore the types of sex positions and actions and such you like. How can that be boring if both are pretty well on the same page?
Having the right partner is key to keeping it beautiful between you and her and using your own minds will keep it going as long as you want it to keep going. Don't worry about changing to the times or not changing to the times, do what feels right for both and enjoy what's real in your own life.