Caught my husband masturbating

Last night I was down stairs cleaning up after putting kids to bed. Hubs was resting and didn’t hear me come upstairs. Full on caught him in the act while watching porn on his phone. That was the first time ever! only reason I was mad was because he didn’t invite me lol or fuck me so naturally I was offended

 

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Now it’s your turn for him to catch you!!

 

Lol right! I just thought to myself maybe this is why house wives get upset at their husbands for watching porn etc lol. I’m like heeeeello horny pregnant wife here come get it!

 

My wife has caught me masturbating and gets mad. I tell her that if we had sex more often I wouldn't need to masturbate. It has been over a year and no sex. She is not interested but I get hard seeing her naked body or have morning wood I need to take care of. Oh well.

 

A man needs to release.

 

Bad manners I'd have asked you to help me out lol

 

Sometimes it's just spur of the moment. I must admit it was poor taste with the porn. Don't be mad, it's not about you, really.

 

Hon, I would have started jilling off right then and there. Invite or not! But I get were your coming from. Men can be such inconsiderate assholes! I know, I am married to one. Lol.
Hit me up one day we can chat and help each other get off!

 

This.

 

I would love my wife to do that. I’m not sure what my wife would do if she caught me.

 

Sometimes it is just easier to take the problem in hand than have sex.

 

Lol no excuses he gets it whenever he wants and at least once a day! I get it tho when he’s at work I’ll definitely be doing it.

 

I would have just said that I was dreaming of your pussy and couldn't wait ,then I would have pulled your knickers down and gave you a good seeing to.

 

Why should it be a big secret? My wife and I agreed that it is something natural and it's healthy. Getting the uncomfortable aspect out of the way, we both did it to ourselves,as a way to understand what the other enjoys. It certainly helped. There were no hangups in our house. I would buy different sex toys for us to play with. Watching my wife fuck her pussy with a dildo help to learn what makes her feel wonderful and lustful.

 

I’m not uncomfortable lol I was just butt hurt he didn’t come take from me.

 

Maybe he was shy about asking for help?

 

Masturbation and sex are not the same thing. They can both be a part of a couples repertoire (as my wife and I)... but alone masturbation is a different thing.
It is not any indication something is amiss with your regular sex. It does not indicate he isn't satisfied.
My wife and I, along with regular sex, like to mutually masturbate. It is a MAJOR turn on.... HUGE. And believe me - your husband also wants to do that.
As well as sometimes she doesn't want to have sex, but I am aroused so she will "assist", even if that is just laying beside me nude.
And even with this... I still jerk off alone. And always will. It is a different thing.

 

You should have held him down, taken your clothes off, and climbed on top of him before he had a chance to react.

 

We're all wondering - did he get to finish?

 

Why were you offended by that. IMO, sex and masturbation are different. I love having sex with my wife. But i also need my alone time. My wife caught me so many times, either she joined me, helped me or just said have fun. And the same the other way around. Sometimes she needs to get ger alone time. But when i catch her i usually spy on her or just end up helping her out.