Soo long story short my dealer stopped by with a nice ounce of some super dank bud, and my dad was standing at the front door (unbeknownst to me), and watched the entire transaction. What do I do now? They already yelled about how I'm going to go to jail and what not, but honestly, I don't know what to say to them now. I'm up in my room, with this bag of bud, and I have no idea what to do/say.
Tell them your 18, you can decide what to do with your life. They are not in-charge of your actions, legally your a man. So you can do what you like, without parental consent.
dude, you can think of what to say surely, ur way too clever for that. ^ but yeah above poster has it. and whatever happens dont give them that bud
The whole 18+ thing is true, but the part that ruins that is you did this in your parents house/ brought drugs into their house, they are liable for the things that go on within it. And of course if *knock on wood* you did get in trouble, your parents would probably be picking up a lot of the legal fees, even if you are 18. Wow, this is pretty rough. I wouldn't bring it up unless they do first. Just keep your cool, be respectful and honest. If they already know you smoke, just apologize for them having to watch you buy drugs right in front of their home. If they didn't know you smoked, nows a good time to tell um. I wish you the best of luck, brother.
Oh yeah, and them yelling at you about going to jail. This just proves that the main reason they are upset with you is that they don't want you to get in trouble and fuck up your life, not anger because marijuana is bad for you or something along those lines. You are 18, you are an adult in the eyes of the law which means your parents can do little to save your ass if you get in trouble. Try to show them that you ARE responsible with your drug use to ease their anxieties perhaps? Again, good luck.
They know I smoke, but idk, I may have to clean things up a bit around here to get some pressure off. I might cut my long hair, sell my bongs/pipes, get rid of my plant, just in case things get bad they don't have anything else to bring up. Im working full time during the summer, I got good grades both semsters of my first year at college, they don't have much else to be mad about We'll see... Thanks for all the positive vibes everyone =)
go down and be honest man. i got caught by my mum loads. mid spliff!!! just sayhow its only recreational and youve got your head screwed on and would never take anything else. it was bought for a party say. i was caught E'd up and having sex in my car on the drive so had to learn the gift of the gab quite quickly!
Ok. Listen closely. Go down stairs. Go up to your parents explain that you are sorry for bringing it into their house. Tell them that you are old enough to think for yourself and you still get good grades. Explain responsibilities. Then grab the bag tell your parents you are leaving to return it. Do not really return it but they will be happier that you know to keep it out of their house and whatnot.
^ lol yes, lie through your teeth, that would make it hella fucking better. if they find the bag in ur room by accident, they will know ur a no good junkie crackhead weedsmoker who has to lie about shit like that. haha maybe not entirely that but they wont trust u evaaar again for the next 2 weeks
If I were you, i would just light up a nice little pin joint to mellow out, throw some eye drops in, and go downstairs and explain to them how you have been making responsible decisions for most of your life and that you bought it from a reliable guy. Also slip in the fact that your 18 and are responsible for yourself and tell them that smoking in the comfort of your own home is much safer than smoking other places and getting busted. And tell them that if they really have a problem with you buying and smoking weed then you will do your best to distance them from it and not interrupt their lives. (pretty much exactly what a parent wants to hear) good luck dude
just roll a blunt and offer to smoke it with them. im sure they can appreciate a nice 1/8 blunt. they won't be as mad
lol everything has chilled out i got rid of all my shit just in case they wanted to go to the next level... all my pipes (as seen in my gallery) have been sold to friends, my plant was given to another friend, i cut my hair short again, got rid of any of my stray baggies, dutches, ezwiders, everything. there is nothin in my room that could be used as evidence ... no weed either =\ although that's cuz I have bronchitis right now
what i wanna know is how do you hide all of your pipes and stuff as shown in your gallery if you live with your parents and such?
I kept all of them behind some boxes on my top shelf in my closet. My parents would never have a reason to go there.
I dont think having evidence of your weed use would annoy them more considering they have just watched you buy an Oz. Sucks dude, i wouldnt have sold/given up all that stuff because of it but tbh it proves you are far more mature than me and can be the big man and sort yourself out. Bollocks my life needs sorting out xD
You did the right thing. If you are living under your parents roof the last thing they want to hear is you going off on how you are 18 and can make your own decisions... you are after all living in their house. You made the right choice... respect their house and wait tell you get your own pad or atleast try to keep it out of the house since it bothers them.
good luck man. I think that if you are mature about the whole thing (as it seems like you have been) then your parents should (hopefully) realise that what you are doing ins't a bad thing. p.s how long was your hair?
