Hi, new member here - married, with kids. Something happened to me the other week that I wanted to run by others to get a view. Through work I often stay away from home and take the usual pleasure from my 'alone time' but often think about taking this a set further. In the past I've had one night encounters at work events, usually powered by drink, and on one occasion a longer term 'additional' relationship with a colleague. That said, as a youngster I never slept around or had a large number of partners and consider myself fairly conservative. A few weeks back however I was out will a couple of colleagues and at the end of the night took a walk back to my hotel (alone) through the West End of London. It was a decent night so just before arriving back I sat down to do a bit of people watching and almost immediately was approached by a woman. She was similar in age to me (early 40's) and under just as much influence as me, we got talking and had a short walk... ....long story short, we ended up back at my hotel, spend the entire night sleeplessly before saying goodbye over breakfast. We didn't swap phone numbers (in fact she didn't even get my name!) and separated never to be seen again. On reflection it all seems a bit odd. I had no feelings for her at all, she was nothing like my 'type' and for a few hours I had a load of regret which, I have to be honest, has completely passed. Do many of you get up to this often? I'm trying to figure out if this is something I should get into more often! All views welcome.
Are you Al Bundy? Married, with children. “Do many of you get up to this often?” No I think most married people are faithful, but I’ve live a sheltered life.
