i have a bit of a problem, i cant have safe sex with my girlfriend (she wont let me unless i do) and i would but i have a latex allergy (its rubber), this means i cant use them. Im aware that there are non latex condoms but i also hear that they break easily and i have to order them at the chemist, which i would just find too embarasing, that and i have too say, "can i order X special non-latex condoms!" then theres the issue of what size, they make comments like, "wow, your girlfriends lucky, or are you sure?" (thats why my bro just uses condom dispensers or buys them in another town, cuz dad had a big embarasing talk to my bro because the chemist commented on it...) My girlfriend says she would never use the pill ever, or any contraceptions... What should i do??
Mates are a brand of condom that are natural non-latex. Durex also make natural condoms. Its just a case of shopping around. Non-latex condoms are just as safe as ltex condoms. I have to use them as they are the only ones that fit me well.
I don't use the pill either, would never do so as I think those hormones are not that great for healthy women. So, I don't blame her. You only have one choice: get non-latex condoms. They have two types: lambskin and polyurethane (I think I spelled that right, lol). Going to order them is not as embarrassing as, say, winding up with a pregnant girlfriend. I don't know about the non-latex ones breaking more often. I do know lambskin do not protect against STDs, but otherwise, they do protect against pregnancy. Your other option is to avoid vaginal intercourse and enjoy other forms of sexual activity.
whats the fun in that ill probably make some trips to the city, its an excuse to visit my sister and they wouldnt ask questions...
Adrian, Non-latex condoms are the way to go. They should have them in stock at most pharmacies. They are very discrete. That said, I noticed in another forum you talk about wanting to smoke weed, but that your mom cleans your room and you're worried she'll find them. Here, you are talking about having sex, but being too embarassed to ask the clerk for condoms. This says to me that you aren't ready to partake in either of these activities. Take this as my 2 cents, but these are adult activities that require adult levels of responsibility and come with adult consequences. Your attitude says to me you can't deal with the adult consequences. Therefore, my advice is for you to not partake in these activities. Just my 2 cents. Not a negative against you, just an observation that you may be rushing to adulthood. Enjoy the teen years-the adult ones come soon enough. Cheers
nah, im not afraid, its just you dont have my parants! my bro got sick of em and left! They invade our privacy, if i go somewhere, for example a party, they have to go in and talk to them. Im not even gonna get started on parents night at work! She got my manager fired because she wasnt happy with the way she ran the place!
they are also latex... not to mention i can get them, but my dad is friends with the local pharmicist... thats how my bro got caught...
You can talk with your gf about using nuva ring its really simple and it works my gf has been using it for a long time http://www.nuvaring.com/
i vote for polyurethane, as it protects against far more stds than lambskin do here in north america, most pharmacies (aka chemist) carry the PU condoms beside the regular latex ones, but they do cost a bit more
In my HIV prevention classes we were assigned to survey condoms as a learning project. The female condom is polyurethane, but I found out here in the Miami area they are not available in the big chain drug stores, only the Health Department has them. I quit recommending them because of this. Also, they make crinkly noises in sex and cost three times what a latex male condom costs. Polyurethane condoms are available on the shelf of the drug stores. Just remember you have to get close to your size as they do not stretch like latex. An old trick for latex allergy is to use a lambskin (really the original condoms used by Casanova centuries ago). They will prevent pregnancy but are too porous to prevent many STD's. If using to prevent STD's it has been suggested to put the lambskin next to your skin then put a latex on top of that. Here in the States we have health departments and other agencies set up just for this kind of thing and they do it confidentially. I suspect Oz has the same places you can go for info and assistance. Quite frankly, as a grampa who has had candid talks with my 14-year-old grandson, I agree with the poster who suggested you may be too young to be doing this if you are too embarrassed to ferret out condoms. Also, don't be so quick to think vaginal penetration is the only way to go. She can give you a hand job and you'll be getting off just as much as sliding in and out of her. Try oral with fingers. Try fucking her breasts. She might even give you head, who knows.
im 16... lol, typo, thx for pointing out... i turn 17 on the 11th of July... I get them sent to me now
I don't know what the laws are like in Australia but can't the pharmacist get in a shit load of legal troubles for divulging your brother's personal information to your father? Are Pharmacists held to the same levels of confidentiality as doctors, and if no, why not?
hahahahaha!!!! don't kid yourself. any condom will fit you. i guarantee it. there is this bitch at a party who said her boyfriend was sooooo biggg that he needed speeeeccciaaal condoms because they wouldnt fit him i went into my room, pulled out a regular condom, opened it up and COMPLETELY PUT IT OVER MY HEAD AND FACE and through the condom i said: "WOWOW YOUR BOYFRIEND MUST SERIOUSLY HAVE A LARGE COCK" :toetap05:
I've seen sex educators do this by putting a condom over their fist. Condoms will stretch to a very large size, but what you fail to realize is that a fist and your head have bones in it and a penis only has hydraulics. So, yes, a regular condom will fit over a large penis, but it will do so with increased pressure which will be uncomfortable.
