Can't please my GF please help

I have two reasons to why I can't please her. First of all I suffer from anxiety which causes premature ejaculation within seconds, it's fucking embarrassing. Second of all I have chronic compartment syndrome in my forearms which makes me unable to finger her due to my arms cramping up. I've had surgery in one of the arms to no avail. And the last option would be a vibrator but she doesn't like the way they feel so that's out of the question as well. The tongue is not enough stimulation for her. Are there any other options? I can't stand not being able to please her so please help me.

 

You are thinking too much.
Sex is 70% mental. Therefore any mental issues one might have has a guaranteed side effect on sexual performance.
The best cure is to discuss it with her. Tell her openly about this, and how much it bothers you. Get it out in the open.
Many times that alone will get you on the road to having better sex.
As for "pleasing her" - women are not men. They do not fixate on orgasm like we do...at all. Most women can only orgasm by their own doing anyway. Don't put pressure on yourself that you HAVE to make her cum. Chances are, you won't.

 

Thank you so much for replying. I had no idea they didn't fixate on orgasm so thank you for the information. I guess I'll tell her about how I feel and ask if there is any way to solve it. My PE will probably resolve once I get the anxiety in order but who knows how long that'll take.