I have never orgasmed from being vaginally penetrated. I can climax in seconds with clim stimulation but never through sex or fingering. I obviously really want to, any tips?
You really have to get your partner involved with you and be on the same page...when I was younger, not that I am old now but, I had that problem until I decided to do what pleasured me and relaxed with it....dont get in a hurry take your time. You need to first find your G spot and stimulate it why your alone and get to know it first, after that you will be well on your way to having glorious explosions!!!! I did!!
Worrying about anything involved with orgasm is just going to exacerbate the situation. Relax and enjoy yourself. Have fun doing what pleases you. If clitoral stimulation gets you off, then clitoral stimulation it shall be. Anyone who insists you cum via penetration . . . Fuck 'em . . . or don't . . .
Its more likely that your b.f./hub cums too quick , a common guy problem . Jerk him off first ,while he fingers you, then have sex.
That's totally normal. A lot of women can't orgasm like that. For a long time I couldn't orgasm while being penetrated, but in time I learned how. You can try getting in positions where you can stimulate your clit WHILE he's penetrating you, or he can touch it while you have sex. For me, this rules out from behind and girl on top, cause I need both hands to support me, some good sex there If he's on top, or you're spooning, then it's a lot easier. Normally, when I'm massaging my clit myself, it takes me upwards of 5 minutes, sometimes over 10. But when I massage it myself while my boyfriend is penetrating me, then I cum quickly. Kind of overloads you, it feels very good
Well i had a gf once who orgasmed clitorally very easy. However orgasming through penetration was more difficult for her...
You are not alone. Lots of us can't. It's no big deal. A little bit of shared finger work can be most enjoyable. certainly DON'T feel in any way inadequate because you can't do something that porn glorifies. Just enjoy every moment as it comes (pun not intended!)
