Boy do I envy most of you people here. My sex life is so boring compared to what's going on here. I'm a 77 year old guy with a wife about the same age and very attractive, but not very sexual. Our sex life has always been normally good. When I say normally good I mean nothing kinky just straight sex and some oral. It just seems as I get old I'm more sexually frustrated. Our sex is down to about once every three weeks or more and it all depends on her, when she's in the mood. I'm almost always ready to go. I tried talking to her, showing her articles to read, showing her some porn. Doesn't work. I asked her if she ever thinks of sex and she said sometimes, but then she forgets about it. She never saw herself as sexy and still doesn't. She's a terrific lady and a wonderful wife, but the sex is just OK....when we do it. I've tried talking to her about it many times and the next day it's business as usual, like we never had the conversation. Anyway, I don't expect and advice here I just wanted to vent. Of course if anyone does have any advice I would be happy to hear it. Thanks for reading this.
I feel bad for you. You could try using the analogy of her cooking for you. You don't care if she's the worst cook on the planet, if she's cooking, you're eating at home. If she's not, you're going to be eating somewhere else. It's my opinion that intimacy is a huge part of a relationship. If you're putting in all the other work it takes to keep a relationship going, the bills, the emotional support, and a thousand other unfun things, but not getting the intimacy you need to keep you from being frustrated and resentful, it's time to move on or get it somewhere else.
Thanks for your reply mcme. Can't move on, she's a wonderful person and we've been married 51 years. Was thinking of getting it somewhere else....gotta really think about it.
most of the people you're referring to are virgins typing out their sexual fantasies. the rest of us are just nerds who don't get any action and don't pretend to.
Really? Surprised to hear that. Quite a few people on this forum talk about their experiences. You don't believe they're true?
I'm really surprised to hear "you're getting more than I am". Wasn't expecting to hear that at all. Maybe I shouldn't complain about my situation. I just feel I need more and someone more into sex.
I think he meant...............well, should I be a buzz kill here? Because I really like what you just said and I'd rather not ruin the moment, lol.
