Hi, I'm that girl who started that other thread "Can't get it in!" Well, now I can get that new vibrator in, I just can't orgasm! I come really really close every time, but i can't seem to finish it off. All of the tips were so helpful when I couldn't get it in. I would appreciate tips now! Thank you!
Don't try to put it in. Just put it up against your clit and find the place that it feels the best, then relax and lay back and enjoy it. You're more likely to come that way, anyway.
You need to relax, something is mentally keeping you from getting there. Keep at it and one day it will happen and when it does you'll never be the same.
Perhaps I should do the deed with this guy I've been chasing for quite some time. His birthday is coming up.
JavaJade - Some women (perhaps 15-20%) are unable to orgasm, or have them only very infrequently. Why this is the case is not known - I suspect that since men and women really screw with their brains, not the delivery or receiving systems between their legs, it has something to do with inhibition. Try to relax in a completely private environment, and if you are with this guy, try to lay back and enjoy the moment for what it is - the most personal, intimate thing two human beings can do with each other. And do a lot for foreplay first.
what do you think about while you masturbate? i cant get off if i dont fantasize or at least talk dirty to myself (in my head, not out loud, for me at least). just sitting there with a vibe up against my clit isnt going to get me all teh way there. itll get me close, but i cant cum if im not erotisizing something in my head
