Hey frnds need some help.' I have colleague. who is close to me(some what). She comes to me at work time in morning.. and speaks to me.. sometime she pinches me and touches me and talks to me. whenever she talks to me she touches me some how... some time we talk about sex.. i dont understand if we wants SEX. so I want to apporach her first?? how do i ask her, if she is interested ??? she is married and does'nt have kids I like her.... we talk lot abt work.. we hv a grt eye contact.. i know she likes likes me by the way she talks to me
You might be reading to much into it. Where I work my colleagues do that when they want you to go pick up the lunch order.
If you have talked "about" sex with her before, just come right out and ask her. The worst she can say is no.
well no, in this scenario the worst she can say is "hello lawyer, i would like to sue my coworker and our employer for sexual harassment."
A clarification of signals would be helpful. "So I have noticed in the past this and this and this has happen. I also know that we have talked about sex. That being said, I would really be interested in knowing your ' intentions.".