Cannot cum while being given head

me and my girlfriend have been trying new things recently.
She has given me head a few times in the past week, about 5 or 6 times.
I have only came twice. and when i am being given a blowjob i can never get completely hard.

Im not nervous, just a bit uncomfortable.

Why can I not cum unless I really think about it? I can cum faster while masturbating.

Any advice would help.

 

Also, I have had a pretty bad cold this past week. Could that effect it at all??

 

No offense, but some girls just give shitty head...

 

well duh.

 

I wouldn't say "shitty", but they do what they think is good. Usually the sensation ain't strong enough and ain't consistent enough. You need to give advise and feedback. It also may relate to personal intelligence and common sense - a guy going soft in her mouth should be interpreted as lack a technique - or a shitty BJ as it was called above.

 

^ Thats alot of bullshit.

^ This + 1

 

no not really he does bring valid points.

 

no...

Some girls just have a god given ability to giving head, Some improve giving head over time and practice and some do in fact just suck at it. (no pun intended) its like any skill really...

Steve vai has some god given ability with the guitar, David gilmour constantly improved with playing and over time, and peter frampton sucks. You can insert different names and/or activities that you may feel more accurate but the analogy works the same.

 

Seriously, dude, if I think of Dave Gilmour's ugly face next time I am getting sucky sucky i'm going to come after you :frown:

 

Anyone can have good oral skills with some practice, but it's usually the girls who don't like it very much that suck at sucking. Maybe you'd be more in to it if she were?

 

Hahahahahaha

the imaginary being. You should play 'time' by floyd next time you are getting dome shots.

 

My house mate is the same except he can cum it just takes him ages. Anyway, he says it takes so long because he can't cum if he's not in control. When he starts to thrust into a girls mouth or takes her hair then he's set up and ready to go, but without this "control" thing he can't do it.

 

You see....now I know why I neg rep you sometimes....

you seem to disagree with him but then you somewhat agree and is saying the same shit.....I believe any girl can get good at it with guidance from their lover.

Steve Vai wasn't given G-d like skills he had to bust his balls to get there like anyone and I have experience this after 6 yrs of playing. You most put the hours in to get good. Getting off topic but I believe past 10,000 hrs of guitar practice scientifically tested you have reach level of virtuous.

As for framp I dont think he sucks.

and no the analogy doesn't work because Vai himself said that he had to bust his ass and when was a kid he didnt have a ear for music.

 

its probably more of hows his being stimulated then being in control. I guess thats why you would cum faster...

 

The dude played with frank Zappa as a teenager, shut up

 

Let's just all agree to disagree that both guerilla and jmt can probably give some great head.

there, happy?

 

no he was practicing with Joe Satriani and finished school at Berkeley in Boston. Yeah he played with Zappa as a teenager but as I said he already had gone throw Satch and Berkeley school.
so stfu

 

first of all relax. pressure is the worst ingredient for an orgasm. do you enjoy what she's doing, but can't gt there? can you not concentrate? is it a control thing like someone else mentioned?
also, self-consciousness is bad. you sound like many of the women who don't enjoy oral from their guys b/c they are worried about their bodies, smell etc.

 

LOL are you even thinking about what you are typing???

 

This!