Can You Make Yourself Orgasm?

In all of the many forms of sex play... can you make yourself orgasm.

I know guys can obviously make themselves orgasm via masturbation. But what about during intercourse?

And what about the ladies?

I know for me, it's very difficult for me to make myself orgasm... I have to have help from someone else. If I'm on top or in some other position when I'm in charge... if I'm close, I have to stop or at least slow down... I can rarely make myself go all the way... just because it's too good.

I have to be forced or controlled or coerced by the other party, to go all the way!

 

unfortunatley...Ive never had one..........

 

i can make myself orgasm easily, unfortunately no one else can.

 

yeah if i don't think about it all too much.

no orgasm erzebet?

 

i bet i could ... *wink wink*

 

What???!!!

 

I spent an hour in the shower prior to this post, and I was asking the bf to please hold the shower head for me, because when it got reallllly good, I had to stop, I couldn't take it anymore. And I'd keep doing it to myself, getting almost there, and then have to chill out...haha, it's exciting. But it just made me wonder.

 

I just had a visual of that scene in the shower !!.....but, even though I havent, I still have a good time GIVING them !!!

 

well that's good! we need more people like you erzebet!

 

Hey...it all about giving....not getting !!..........think the guys are listening ??

 

Awww, erzebet...that is sad to hear, it really is. When I hear of women who have never experienced it, I can't even imagine.

Anyway, yes, I can make myself orgasm, although it's been a really long time. Usually I just have my husband take care of business for me.

 

Its cool....Im really into whats going on with the other person !!!

 

Yes I can & so can other people.

 

If I'm turned on enough by what's going on, I can concentrate myself into an orgasm. If that doesn't work, there are numerous ways to get there otherwise!

 

Lol, man your sig pic is hot!

 

Hmm... you sure you want to stick with that answer?

 

Yes, every day.

 

No...that changed ...thank you SO MUCH Fox....hahahaha......fantastic job !!!!

 

Then my job here is done... for the moment. :X

 

Hahahaha...........yer so bad....round two my love ????