Okay, so Guy K doesn't want to spank because he's just of a very gentle nature. He can get pretty rough and heated in bed though which is why I'm not sure why he's above spanking. He did oblige me once when I asked him to in the heat of the moment but he won't ever do it on his own. I don't think I came so hard (except for when we.. that's a different story). Is there any way to encourage him to take the initiative? Should a woman just keep asking until the both of you get used to each other's likes and dislikes?
Tell him you want to be spanked and tell him how: hand, paddle, bare bottomed, over his knee, or whatever. Provide the "tools"--maybe watch some spanking porn together also. Find some good spanking sites for him to read also. Unless he has a strong aversion to it he will probably find it very arousing.
Thanks, Now. I think he just needs a bit of encouragement (we never talk about past relationships in this sense so I don't know if he's had a bad experience before). I casually mentioned spanking yesterday and he grabbed me and spanked last night. lol So, we'll see. ..
Ahhhh, spanking...one of my favorite things my husband does for me. Invest in a riding crop...very intense!! I would say to encourage your man, assure him that you love it, look into his eyes and tell him how hot it makes you, then attack him. He'll get the idea of how turned on you get just talking about it.
yeah, if you're not averse to impliments (paddles, whips, etc.) as opposed to simply barehanded, then a good way to give a very strong hint would be to make a gift of such a thing for him....christmas is coming up
i you are gonna get a whip invest in a really good riding crop like belladonna blue suggested i love using my one and i love it being used on me!! meow, meow!!
A crop is an insteresting suggestion. While we are on this subject, has anyone here ever tried a rattan cane? I've heard it's supposed to be really intense, especially on bare skin. I was talking to a girl about it a while back, and she said it gives an invigorating burst of masochistic energy, but the sheer intensity of the pain is hard to take. I was just curious if anyone had any thoughts on the matter.
