Can someone give me some quick advice....?

This might be a long post, but I do want some advice from whoever is willing to give it.

Earlier this week, I was joking around with my brother who is 19 & married but lives with me. He had just got off work, and I asked him why a friend of his (a girl) would sometimes put weird stuff on Facebook. I never talked to her, I only added her as a friend. Well, my brother just says ask her why she does, and I took that to heart. I didn't actually ask her, but I did talk to her on Thursday. At first she thought I was in college, but I told her I was in high school. Prior to that she said she liked me because I was funny, but I took that as a compliment than something serious, since we had only exchanged a few messages. Anyway, she freaked when I told her I was in high school, but soon we just went back to normal conversation. I talked to her about different things pertaining to science and what not, and had no intention of bringing up sex because I hate looking like a jerk or even implying that's all I think about, because it isn't. She called me smart multiple times and what not, and fast forwading to later, I asked her if in time would she give me a relationship chance, but said she didnt know because she's cool with my brother and dated his friend, who is kind of my friend, but not a close friend or anything of the sort, mind you. So, I guess she's told my brother of some of our conversations, and it's not a bad thing because I guess she just wanted to fill him in. He wasn't really mad, but told me it's not happening. The odd thing about this is when I had a crush on another friend of his (I still do a little) he told me he didn't care, and as long as we were happy, but now it's a whole different story. My best friend tells me to ignore that because it's not his decision to make.

So, basically, I want you all to tell what you think and answer a few things for me. For one, since I've been able to talk to her successfully, and despite her telling my bro of the convos, do I seem to be off to a good start? And how can I possibly set things up so maybe I could date her in the future? I don't want to sound like I'm in a rush, because I'm not. I initally didn't like her in that manner at all, but I saw how smart she was and I started to like. Anyway, I'm not in a rush because I'm only 14 and at this point I'm more businessminded and focused on completing my school, but I would like to maybe set things up for the future. I wouldn't want to do anything now because for one she could get in major trouble, and two, she's in College, but the place she's in is only a few hours away.

Sorry this is so long, but I had to tell it all. Any helpful advice you can give, I'm all ears, guys.

Thanks.

 

No way I am reading that block..
this guy loves to throw the insults to.
Good morning

 

if it's meant to be it'll be- don't pressure yourself into making it happen let nature take it's course.....

tupac is dead

 

True that!! I am out as well..

 

I have not been throwing insults at anyone lately, and please, if you're not going to be insightful, don't post at all.

 

Of course 2Pac is dead, but that has nothing to do with the thread. Anyway, I'm not trying to force anything, just want tips on how to improve my chances even more.

 

He must have told you it was not happening for a reason.
I have a hard time believing you are 14.

 

I don't know why he told me that, but she doesn't seem to mind talking to me. And I'm 14 for sure, I have no reason to lie about my age, I've never understood why people do it anyway.

 

In my many years on the net I've never used the Ignore feature before, but I'm liking it now! This is what I get:

. . . . . . . This message is hidden because ChrisGriffin is on your ignore list.

Some children are persistently stupid!



Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

Tldr.

 

she is not interested in you, but she talks to you to be polite.

 

I never said she was interested in me in that manner, hence why I said I wanted to get to that point.

 

i've had this problem with you before.
how do you get that block function ol' troll?

 

There is no problem, and I don't see why you all insist on creating one.

 

1. click on “User CP” near the top left of your screen … you get a new view.
2. on the left side go down to the “Edit Ignore List” and click … you will need the exact user’s name

There may be another way … lot’s of stuff on this site!

Always remember the first rule of the 'net: Don't Feed The Trolls!

ChrissGriffin isn't a troll, he's an attacker. The proper way to deal with an attacker is to report him with a couple of links to his attacks. I didn’t do it because I feel sorry for him. He has said that he’s a rather sickly home-schooler … no friends and no social skills yet … and way too much time on the internet building sexual fantasies. I thought that using ignore was better in his case.

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if he's such a problem, then just leave the threads he post in alone. if someone's looking for advice and there have been problems in the past, then it's best to ignore any future conflicts.

 

No!
Don't let anybody keep you from full participation - - ever!​

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i just find that i try to be nice to him but when he replies he either - gives me shit for what i said, or tries to prove me wrong.
i would rather not hear what he has to say if he doesnt want to hear what i have to say.

 

I hardly know you, and the only reason I can fathom that you want there to be a problem is because you are insecure and have many problems of your own.

 

This is why everyone DOES NOT like your ass!!!!!!!!
And you are the DUMB ASS!!!!
14 yeah right,I think you are just some perv.
See ya