Can he fall back in love with me?

I have been on and off with this guy for months, we have both have alot of personal stuff to deal with and it has overshadowed our relationship. He know says that he loves me but is not in love with me and maybe after some time he will fall back in love with me. is this possible? to fall back 'in love' with somebody. I have believed he is the one and i don;t know wot to do without him, i want to believe everything will be ok but will it?

 

No.

He's playing you for your body. Dump him.

 

Um well that depends on a lot of thing but yeah it is possilbe that can happen I guess just wait till all the drama that you are having blows over and when that is good try it and if not well then it is time to move on.

 

Note all the women are talking about Cosmo suppositions about love and ignoring the fact that he's saying exactly what she wants to hear to get into her drawers.

 

For once, I'm going to have to agree with IronGoth on this one.

 

In this case maybe, but Jer came back to me after it was his idea to break up. I don't know that he ever stopped loving me though. He just had a drug issue and depression to work through.

 

RE: but Jer came back to me after it was his idea to break up

Translation: She doesn't want to sleep with me. You do. You'll do. (For now)

 

There was no other someone Iron, everyone isn't like you. And we weren't sleeping together at the time. We broke up because of his drug problem and he thought it was more important to get high than it was to have people in his life. Everything isn't as black and white as you make it out to be in your mind dear.

However, that didn't stop me from going out and doing my own thing and meeting other men when we were apart. It isn't as if I pined over him or anything. We happened to meet up again one day and got to talking and once again became friends and that turned into more again as it did the first time.

So my answer to her question was and still is that it is possible, but I wouldn't sit around and wait for it to happen. There have been people in my life that I love, but I'm not in love with them and I don't want to be with them and I probably won't ever fall in love with them so there is no point in wasting time hoping someone will fall in love with you, when there are plenty of other people out there who are in love with you already, you just haven't met them yet.