So. Kind of an embarrassing question to ask, but I'm always open to improving my skills, so I'm tossing this out there to the rest of you: I love oral sex (with both men and women). I'd say that I'm even probably orally-obsessed. I love the feeling of a cock in my mouth, even deeply so, but I seem to have a built in blockade at a point. I can easily take 5-6 full inches (which, let's face it, covers maybe 70% of what's out there), but cannot get anything past that point with larger or longer members. I've tried my best to relax, or figure some way of "opening my throat" (which I've had no luck in figuring out how to do), even trying to press my head forward to force it past this stopping point, all to no avail. The few times that a partner has forcefully shoved it deeper somehow, I've gagged to the point of nearly puking, which completely kills the vibe. Obviously, I've read all the recounts and stories, as well as seen an overwhelming amount of porn over the years with this being (seemingly) easily done, and I'd really love to experience the feeling myself of a long cock sliding down my throat. I can nearly orgasm from giving a blow job to a perfectly sized and shaped cock already, and this seems like it would be the ultimate oral sexual event! So, do you all think that this is just something that some people are born with or have a natural ability or knack for, or can the rest of us commoners learn to be able to do it, too?! Any tips, hints, or info would be greatly appreciated!
I can say that I love being mouth fucked and take a lot of cocks in my mouth as well as my bum. I do not consider myself as an expert by any means.....in fact I have posted here on HF before looking for advice like you. My perspective is that so much depends on the angle of both penetration and also the angle, if any, of his cock. And of course the length and thickness. My bf of the moment here in India has a very thick cock about 7.5" long, and while I can take him deep when he gets near to orgasm his cock swells even more and then i generally choke. With long thinner cocks, especially if fairly straight, I can usually take them right down into my gullet ....and the sensation when he cums is great....to feel those creamy globules pumping down my throat is hot. I'm not a user of poppers but have often wondered, if like with anal sphincter, it enables dilation of mouth n throat......maybe someone here can answer that. I was also once advised to clench your fists during mouth-fucking..... that it somehow relaxes the throat. But generally I must have deep throated hundreds of cocks ...i love it when my partner is over me, holes my arms down and fucks my mouth, taking control...... And I can watch his body thrusting.... There has only been one occasion when I actually puked up all over his cock .....it ended the session sadly which had been hot until then! So while I have been mouth fucked many times I still feel I have more learn on technique so would love to hear from others any advice.....and stories...haha Simon
I'd say it's something you can learn to do as I did but for some it just is never possible to do. I learned to do so with lots and lots of practice trying many different things in many different positions. What I found out for myself is when the head of his cock is placing pressure on my throat opening (which causes some gagging) I tease it back and forth causing the gagging which brings up the real slimy saliva from deep inside your throat to lubricate his cock. After it's sloppy wet and his cock gets to that gagging point, I'm able to open my mouth wider, take a breath in and force his cock all the way down to his balls. I've taken pretty thick 10" cocks this way and the guys love it. My regular guy for the past 12 years is 9 1/2" long, average thickness and I can repeatedly deep throat his cock and when he's ready to cum I take him all the way to his balls forcing my face against his belly. I've also found that it's easier to take longer cock by lying on the bed with my head over the side of the bed as he fucks my mouth and throat. The natural curve of his cock really decides which position will work best for me. Some guys I've needed to be on top in the 69 position to take them to their balls.
So, shortly after writing this up, I decided to try some oral variations with a couple of dildos (my usual go-to since the pandemic started). My usual, about 7-8", and tapering from medium girth at the base and midway to more slender at the tip with a slight bend, did it's usual gagging number on me, no matter what I tried. I tried wrapping it in a lubed condom, but still no joy. For some odd reason, I went ahead and tried my larger one, also about 8", but about 1 3/4" in diameter, and pretty straight. This is not one I usually use for oral, because it's large size doesn't fit very far into my mouth, so the result still amazes me. I added the lubed condom again (which actually gives this one a really lifelike feel) and sucked and pushed away. I tilted my head back a bit, trying my best to relax, and also regulate my breathing. Lo and behold, when at my usual limit, it suddenly slid in a good 1-1 1/2" deeper than ever before! It freaked me out at first! It didn't last more than a couple of seconds, because it cut my breathing off, and I kind of panicked, but it showed me that there is a possibility there. I repeated the same deeper thing two more times before both my throat and gag reflex told me the fun was over. Still, after all these years, it looks like there may be some hope there!
Great....takes practice and learning to relax....but imho a live cock, attached to a guy with a pulse, tastes more natural n is far better by a million miles than a dildo. And for me never with a condom on. Good luck, Simon
I've never once sucked a guys cock with a condom on. I want the warmth and true texture of him in my mouth and also want his warm cum in my mouth.
A person can choke on a condom if it slipped off while down his throat. I learned years ago that I could control my gag reflex. I have tried it with dildos and can deep throat them all. When the bi opportunity came up, I was happy to show off my skill and impressed my friend, who couldn't do it. My wife has always been impressed by my ability, since the days of "DeepThroat" with Linda Lovelace. Open your throat, head back, allow the back of your tongue to relax. It takes a little practice at first, but much easier over time. A real cock is a lot easier and more fun than a dildo.
