Buying big dildo for gf....bad idea?

i have a healthy sex life with my current girlfriend, we like to try new things and consider nothing to be taboo. Recently, i told her that i wanted to use a very big dildo on her, bigger than the vibrator that we currently use. I am really turned on by the idea of tying her up and using a 8" thick dildo on her that is much bigger than mine about 5.5. I have a link below of the dildo

I think she is secretly turned on by the idea also. I know that she will be able to handle a big one, because she's told me that she's had many "bigger" boyfriends in her past.

my question-
is this a good idea or a bad idea? I know that i can get over the idea of her getting off on a big one, but will it stretch her out so much that she will not get any pleasure from my averaged-sized wang? I plan to only use it on her occasionally, but i'm worried that it will be a common practice once i buy the thing for her- and she may become desensitized and lose interest in my penis when we are intimate.

 

How did she respond when you brought it up?

I was pretty nervous just buying my girlfriend one, period =P

Stretching is a myth. Sure, giving birth can loosen some things (due to tearing), but any normal sex practices will be gradual and the vagina is a sphincter muscle, that can adjust for size (like an asshole).
Using it too often could maybe have some affect for more psychological reasons, but I would think you guys would naturally limit your usage of it to account for this.

Any time you go for a surprise you are risking a bad reaction, you just really have to use your best judgment about if it will be appreciated. Good luck in whatever you decide.

 

Stop being a lame-o and get her the ron jermey 12 incher

 

Not a lame o serious question guy

 

Honestly buying my gf a vibrator was one of the best things I ever did now she has an AWESOME toy for when she's alone, and sometimes when I feel like spoiling her I'll surprise her and pull it out and give her a full servicing Don't worry it'll never replace you, just like your right hand could never replace her.

 

Don't overdue it with the size. I bought a dildo for my wife ( 10" and girthy"...thought I was doing her a favor. We used it a couple of times, but she said it hurt a little and really didnt enjoy it. Get her something similar to the size that you are (maybe a little bigger if you want) and get creative with it.

 

It's only bad when you go directly from fucking her with a dildo to fucking her with your cock.... In my experience, it really emphasised how much smaller he was. Sigh.

 

After buying it she feels that i am much bigger than she initially thought or has been thinking. We have the dildo attached to a dresser so it hangs there and while she uses it doggie style she sucks me off and it simulates a 3 some for her. Apparently even with warming lubricant the big dildo is still cold inside her she would rather a real penis that is big like the dildo I can tell, but this seems to have made her more happy with my size this experiment and has placed new fun in bedroom. She orgasms now from her vibrator on her clit while riding me or while using it when i am going down on her

 

Howlyourname... May i ask what size the dildo was and what your partner was?

 

You're not going to ruin her by fucking her with a big fat dildo every once in a while!
Vaginas stretch and bounce back to what they were, and believe it or not we girls like to be really stretched occasionally (although not all the time, just when we're feeling really horny and super dirty!) and if our men can't manage it, ahem, unassisted.... then we'll make do with a silicone substitute!
Buy her the big bruiser and a smaller, more modestly proportioned dildo (preferably a vibrator) that's just for her use (for solo girlie masturbation) and you can't go wrong!

 

My girlfriend and I have the exact same toy. It is A LOT of fun for both of us...

 

Dildo is 8.5, my guy is 6ish. Nothing wrong with that, but like I said, going from one straight to the other, is a little underwhelming.

 

My wife and i went toy shopping, and we got the 8 inch one. a couple inches bigger than me, but the thought of it turned me on! I am away for a while, so she uses it. Doesn't bother me, it actually is really hot to imagine!

 

aren't you worried about being replaced by a machine?

 

I actually heard a guy tell a friend "don't get a vibrator for your girl friend. She'll run off with it!" He was serious.

I've seen women on youporn run dildongs up themselves that were unbelievable. I'd hate to follow one of those suckers.

 

get her the sybian

 

It's true. I knew a woman who married her massage chair........

 

Dudes are always worried about this but the fact of the matter is; if she can feel your finger years after she's been sexually active then she'll feel your dick after a dildo.

 

I too bought my wife a dildo larger than myself and about the size of the one you are talking about. And similarly she enjoys it in moderation but, says that its no replacement. Additionally you mentioned that she complained it was cold. We ran into this with the dildos and glass toys. Our solution wrap the toy/toys in a heating pad set on low. Or placing them in warm water before use also seemed to help.

 

all i can say is do not go and buy a dildo or dong for her, regardless of its size.

i used to think my wife would love an 8" long x thick girth dong so i got one for her, and she hates it, refuses to use it because it hurts her and because its one of those silicon type ones, she says they just dont feel anywhere near the same as a real cock.

her favourite porn actor is jack napier (he is 11" long and very thick) and i bought her a dildo that was moulded from his erect penis, and i didnt buy it for her to try and fuck herself with it, i got it because she always wondered what it would be like to hold his cock in her hands, and i can tell you, if you had this thing in your hands and felt its size, just think about those porn actresses who actually did fuck this guy for real, there is no way any woman could honestly say she enjoyed it.

just go out and look at sex toys together, and let her choose a toy that SHE thinks SHE might be happy to use.

she will thank you more i can assure you of that.

also, presenting a woman with a huge dildo can actually make her feel very uncomfortable as well, thinking that you will be expecting her to stuff it inside her pussy because you think she will enjoy it.