My husband works the whole day. He does landscaping so he is out in the hot sun all day. I stay home with our 5 kids and don't talk to adults a whole lot during the day except for the receptionist at the pediatrician or the neighbor accross the street. At the end of the day we are both so worn out that we spend little time being concerned about how the other one is feeling. It is starting to get kind of depressing. I love my husband to death and I want him to feel the way he did when we got married, but it seems like when I try he doesn't and vice versa. How can the two of us get back to the passion we once shared in our relationship....also this can't cost a lot of money and we are kind of grounded being that one of our babes is only 2 months old. What do you all do when you get in a rut to get things back on track?
I suggest you make plans to go out on a date together at least 1 or 2 times a month and get a babysitter for those times.When you go out don't talk about the kids or any negative subjects.Have fun! ~peace & love
definately establish some rituals for only you and your hubby. No talk about work, about the daily routines, just some time for you two.
one night put the kids to bed early and make something yummy just for the twoand thank him for being a good husband and working so hard so you can work hard at taking care of the kids...how could that not work?
