Break up :(

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by MaryJane69, Apr 4, 2008.

  1. MaryJane69

    MaryJane69 Member

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    my bf and I broke up. we are still living together because neither can afford to move out atm. i dunno how long i can do this for!

    i dont have enough money to live on my own atm. i have two cats and they will have to come with me. hard to find a place to stay with two cats

    im not really worried atm, just sad. i need a big ol hug guys!

    he isnt right for me, as much as i love him. im too young to get married, i want to experience the world first. its not fair to either of us at this point. maybe in the future we will find each other again.
     
  2. Vana

    Vana Member

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    God, that's awful, hunny! I think I'll be in that boat pretty soon, to be honest. I've been w/ my bf (long distance) for 5 months, and he's moving schools so we can live together somewhere. I don't think we're meant to be either, and for some reason I don't get out of it. So let's see if I'm there myself in a few months.

    Do you have friends you can go to, or...?
     
  3. MaryJane69

    MaryJane69 Member

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    its really rough, im sorry you and your bf are going throug it too :(

    i have a few close friends but i just dont feel like talking about it, to be honest. its too hard right now :(


    ty for your post
     
  4. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    AWWW SWRRRTY HUGS
    it woill be ok
    these things happen for a reason
    it can really suck tho to go on livin togerther wheb u broke up..
    wish i couyld dpo somethin to help

    but at leastr can give ya more hugs
     
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    hijack:
    Vana, tell him BEFORE he changes his life for you, if you feel this way now
    /hijack.

    MJ, weren't you planning on traveling with another guy this summer? Other than the awkward and sad, what's the problem? A door closed and another opened.
     
  6. MaryJane69

    MaryJane69 Member

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    thank you soaring eagle. *HUG*

    drumminmama, yeah, that was my plan! now it does not include that guy, but includes a longer trip then i had planned with no destination. im just gonna go and hopefully will know when i get there :)

    you are absolutely right. one door closed, and another opened. life will go on. it is sad now, it has been three years. its losing a best friend.
     
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