today my boyfriend and i were on his computer looking up craigslist for a kitten to adopt. then in URL bar, i typed in the name of my city, and before i could type in "cat adoption" the first result that showed was the name of my city + "escorts". it was unusual because why would that be the first thing that comes up when you google a city? so after denying it for 5 mins, my boyfriend admitted to going to those sites. i didn't know what to think about it. he said he fantasizes about them, like he reads the reviews and he gets off on that. apparently he doesnt only look for escort sites from our city, but other random places too. i told him i couldnt really understand that fantasy, because for me, it doesnt turn me on knowing that some girls dont choose or totally enjoy being paid for sex... it's actually sad for me to think about that. he said it turns him on knowing that they're willing to do whatever just to get paid. i dont oppose prostitution, and its great for the girls that enjoy doing it, but there are girls who do it under unfortunate circumstances. anyways i'm not really sure what to say to him right now, it's kind of awkward. i dont think he's doing anything behind my back in regards to actually meeting escorts, but do you guys think i have anything to worry about... like this becoming more than a fantasy? i dont want him to think he's fucked for having these fantasies just because i dont understand them, but are they "normal"? like is it okay that the thought of a girl being desperate for money turn him on?