body types...mainly for guys but girls please chime in too

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by water_dreamer, Nov 10, 2004.

  1. water_dreamer

    water_dreamer I

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    i was just wondering what body types guys tend to prefer if you do have a preference...or what you're usually attracted to (as in physicallY) dont say something like its all about the person because i know people don't mean that fully and in our own minds we do look at a physical aspect of someone when we first see them, at least in my opinion. thanks :)
     
  2. Scholar_Warrior

    Scholar_Warrior Be Love Now

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    I see many different women of somewhat varying body types that appeal to me visually. but the ideal look is something like Pamela Anderson's body, but also like Gwyneth Paltrow.


    basically, I like thin, and especially athletically built women. not body builders tho', I am only attracted to feminine women. breast size is not very important, but firmness is attractive. and anyway I am an ass man. I like a nicely shaped butt.

    that's what I think. :)
     
  3. psilonaut

    psilonaut Mushroom Muncher

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    I find healthy bodies attractive...like a lil bit of chubbyness too..
     
  4. TheMadcapSyd

    TheMadcapSyd Titanic's captain, yo!

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    I like thin, which means small around, small boobs, ect...
     
  5. MusicMan19

    MusicMan19 Music Elitist

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    Well, not to be cliche, but it does depend very much on her personality. No one wants an hideous human being, but if she's 'okay' looking both in the face and in her physique, and she's also really cool and really kind-hearted, I'll fall harder and faster for her than I will for a beautiful bitch with a great body. I guess the question pertains to the initial aesthetics one desires, though. In that, I'd have to say that I like her to be a little bit chubby, with fair size breasts. Nothing above a 36C and below a 32B is ideal. Fat people are off my list, which I think is fair. It's not a desirable look to me. Incredibly skinny women are even worse than obese women, I think. Look! I have tripods for elbows and soft-balls for knees! Come fuck me!
     
  6. mlg32

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    I have always found myself taking a second glance or so at little petite girls with big boobs, or thin as a rail ones too, but just for looks, i have been there and they all seem to be just a bit too skinny for me too many bones and no cushion, not to mention they all have had some sort of blemish to thier personality too, so i much more enjoy real women with a nice set of boobs, and a nice ass, i am a doggie style lover and i enjoy those buns a smackin
     
  7. Crimson

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    i find my self most attacted to girls i get to know that arent jugemental... body types vary with me but i like girls that will take care of themselfs... now im not talking about fucking skinny as a rail.. but i mean that if they are a little chubby it doesnt matter to me one bit... more cushin for the pushin.. lol... just kidding... if you just dont care aboutr yourself thats not attractive to me
     
  8. Spidey

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    I like thin girls. If a girl is not thin, or the right weight for their height, then they start not to resemble a female at all, and that female shape just blurrs away.

    I know some guys like chubby, or heavy women, but maybe the majority do not, because I think it's in a man's chemistry to prefer thin women. Maybe our instincts are programmed that way, so when we see a flat stomach, we are turned on, thus preserving the race by taking the chance on that woman becoming pregnant.
     
  9. MusicMan19

    MusicMan19 Music Elitist

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    I doubt that we are "programmed" genetically to like a skinny woman, simply to further propagate our species. That sounds pretty absurd, really. Neanderthal women were fairly chunky, and women were actually naturally chunky all the way through advanced cultures (Egyptian women were not generally small women, as is the misconception, nor were Indian women). I don't think it's an issue involving genealogy whatsoever. It's simply a matter of preference. I don't mind a thin girl, as long as she's not boney. That's just not my thing. Having a soft girl is just, to this particular guy, a much better thing.
     
  10. Spidey

    Spidey Member

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    Why does it seem absurd? It would keep men from being attracted to an already pregnant woman, and wasting a chance to procreate.


    Just curious, how do you know that early women were not thin?

    Look at the shape of this girl in my signature, she is perfectly shaped.
     
  11. Applespark

    Applespark Ingredients:*Sugar*

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    I think guys more less like girls with shapes and curves and soft skin...a nice wrack and not to thin and stickly with prety eyes
     
  12. Spidey

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    Sorry insane one, I just read your prior post, and you are right, the same things were in there. More importantly it adds credence to my theory.

    Thanks man.
     
  13. Spidey

    Spidey Member

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    I like nice hair as well. The size of the chest is not as important to me, so long as it appears firm.
     
  14. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    Healthy (average) looking women, no sickly looking girls. Eww. Also losta sexy bum is a plus...LOTS :D

    All women are beautiful in their own way though. :)
     
  15. Applespark

    Applespark Ingredients:*Sugar*

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    thats what i ment by nice wrack....not tooo big
     
  16. Spidey

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    Oh you just meant like nice in general. I get it now.
     
  17. MusicMan19

    MusicMan19 Music Elitist

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    Insane, I read your original post and I know you were directing the latter at me. I don't appreciate the condescendence and I don't need that from you. Have you ever read Origin of Species? Have you ever read the Blind Watch Maker? Do you know anything about Genealogy? I'm sorry, but you can't believe everything you read, and physical beauty in the typical societal sense, is in no way an indication of good health or high fertility. A 'chubby' girl could be much healthier physically and much more fertile than a Brazilian fashion model. Obesity, sure, that's an unhealthy way to be, but that still holds no indication of fertility. Read more than an amateur column on the internet, verse yourself properly and don't jump out of your league, that's all I'm telling you.
     
  18. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    I like all body types. Real beauty is in the face. But, I must say, I really like smaller women, shorter than me.
     
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  20. sooty_the_kat

    sooty_the_kat Senior Member

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    Not arguing with what you said but i wanted to add that there is some pre determined genetic influence on what men find attractive and vice versa, going back to survival of the fittest an attractive and medium sized woman, not too thin but not obese, was an indication of good health and a good immune system which is something that is desirable to pass onto offspring.
     

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