Body positivity — Do you love your body?

It’s a very important question! When I was younger I couldn’t stand looking at myself in the mirror! I didn’t like my face, my chubby body or much else. I had the usual insecurity about my penis as well.

as I’ve gotten older (47) I have finally learned to love my dad bod! I’ve accepted that I’ll always be a little chubby with extra weight everywhere and I love and appreciate every part of me, I especially love everything about my penis, whether he’s short and completely flaccid or fully erect and big!

How about you? Do you love your body??

 

Of course I love my body. I'm not that vain or whatever to want to change a damned thing about my body since the one thing I'd probably love to change cannot be changed without problems.

 

When I was younger I looking at myself in the mirror! And a my bf was "chubby body". He was cool boy!

 

I got to have sex with a lot of guys who had issues with their body image and convincing them that, at least for me, I didn't care if they were too skinny, too chubby, dick was considered to be short or whatever other body issues they had or thought they had. They needed to know that they had value that didn't have shit to do with how their body looked... and that was before I got to be an adult. After becoming one? Being friends with - and being able to have sex with - adult males who had body issues and were victimized by body shaming.

Even I had to learn the lesson that just because it looks good doesn't mean it is good...

 

very well said!

 

My protege tends to go on and on about his weight, physique, eating habits, blah, blah, blah and often riffs on how other guys look and I've asked him, "What, do you plan on marrying the guy and having his babies?" He thinks I'm being funny but I'm not trying to be funny when I ask him this - and then point out to him - and ask, "When did we start looking at men and in the same way we look at women?" I tell him that I don't know about him but when I'm with a man, I'm not paying one bit of attention to how he looks or what shape his body's in - my focus is on getting his dick hard and making it soft when he cums in my mouth.

Maybe this is one of those generational things that, admittedly, I don't pretend to understand - and not for a lack of trying. Like, my former gay boyfriend was a tall, skinny, and very pale drink of water; he wasn't a bad looking guy but I didn't fall in love with his looks - I fell in love with who he was as a person and a man and, okay, he had the cutest freckles and killer green eyes but, still, that's not why I fell in love with him. We had talked up a storm one night - and the night we professed our love for each other and, fuck, I wanted to slap the taste out of his mouth because he said that he was afraid that I would reject him because of his looks and I had to explain to him - and more than once - that I learned to be with guys without giving a single thought to what they looked like and, oh, yeah, the pretty boys? All bark, no bite.

I was taught to never judge a book by its cover and as I said, I learned lessons - some of them hard ones - about judging stuff by what I saw when I was looking in the wrong place for the right things...

 

True facts! A nice exterior is great but the true beauty of a person is what’s inside! Is my husband attractive? Absolutely! But I love him so much more for what’s inside of him! His kind heart, his strong spirit and that he absolutely loves me no matter what!

I too have been around and have learned some life lessons the hard way which has been costly and painful! I’ve finally found the one man that my spirit has been crying for all these years!

 

As much attention as I lovingly pay to my dick and manhole I would say yes, I love my body.

 

I'm not a fit or attractive guy, but I've never had any body image issues.

I became a nudist in my 20's. I see my body a lot more now, than when I was a kid. I love looking at my body, even with my dad gut and tiny penis.

 

I’ve never been fit, always had a dad bod even when I was younger but I love my body anyway.

 

Honestly my favorite part of my body is definitely my penis!

 

I don't "love" my body. Although, I do like it. When I was younger I didn't like my body because I was fairly thin (family genetics), but it was a nice contrast to my 7 inch penis. Now, I am generally the envy of a lot of people. Because of my genetics I have manage to stay plus or minus 5 pounds of 165 from the age of 20 to my current age of just shy of 70. And I still love my 7 inch penis!!!

 

Same!

 

Oh wow! My dad bod comes from my father, all the men in his family were overweight.

 

I am 71 and 5’10”. I weight 168-172. And I control my weight and have for many years. My penis is nearly 7 inches. My wife is 66 and shapely at 170. Actually she has a rocking body. We are both nudist and in the lifestyle. We are very happy with our body image. Sex is great too.

 

Beautiful! These two things are so interrelated, being happy with yourself and each other makes you want to have sex and having sex makes you happy!

 

I love what my body can do to other bodies. And the other way around.