blue balls

as a general rule, i try to help my guy out whenever he gets an errection. i dont mind blowing him or whatever most of the time if he's hard. but the guy i've been seeing for a while now gets hard all the time. as much as i enjoy messin with him (especially when it's me who turned him on) its not all i want to do. he gets an errection so easily though... just from kissing or cuddling even! so my question is... how bad do blue balls hurt? i mean, i can't always be playing with him, but i don't want it to be all uncomfortable for him either. i'd rather have to jack him off a lot than have him miserable b/c i wont. so what do ya say guys, how bad are they?

 

never had em, but i would tell him to jack his own shit

 

It feels pretty bad, but you only get it if you're erected for like half an hour or something without coming.. Not from just 10-15 minutes

 

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Thanks! it's new

 

Yeah, pretty much. If your only hard for a couple minutes it's no biggie. But if your like fooling around, heavy petting, stroking, etc., for like 20 - 30 minutes or longer, and all of a sudden you stop and the erection goes away.... that's when the blueballs start. That shit hurts like hell too, feels like you've been kicked in the sack, and sometimes last like an hour

 

Yep, you got him that way. You better take care of it. Seriously, it hurts like hell but you gotta get pretty aroused (like close to cumming aroused) to get them in the first place. If he says he gets them every time he gets a boner, he might be conning you... not that I blame him.

 

OK, you're confusing priapism with blue balls.

Priapism is when you have constant and often painful erections.

Blueballs is when you haven't had sex in a while and haven't rubbed one out and the testicles kind of swell and get painful.

 

i have rarely ever gotten blue balls and i have not masturbated for weeks (not recently) and i have masturbated for 5 hours straight without cumming once and not gotten blue balls. your boy will be fine if you don't jerk him off for a couple days, let alone for 4-5 hours or whenever till your next sex session

 

Blue balls doesn't exist, or at least that's what they say in the school health books, and you know you gotta believe everything you read.

 

If blue balls is what men call their pains, then it damn well does exist! =P

Either way, SUPPOSEDLY, it's when you get a hard-on and, because you end up not cumming, after a while, you end up going flaccid again, and some of the fluids have to drain back into your nuts. And, yes, it hurts like hell, but is rather rare. A guy might get it ... once or twice per year, maybe more, depending on the person.

 

Blue balls exsist......believe

 

It takes a while to get blue balls, but they do hurt quite badly. And don't be afraid of letting your guy wait a bit. He'll be all over you if you deny him an orgasm!

 

i get a terrible gut ache from blues balls, usually when i'm with someone new i'm overactive and i'm horny the entire time we're together

 

Blue Balls is a term for stupid childish sissies who have to coerce/trick their women in to sex. Shame on any woman who falls for this pathetic strategy.

Unless you enjoy being his sex toy, tell him that the sex shop is no longer open for business 24/7. If he's a man, he'll understand. If he's a prick about it then you should dump his worthless ass.

 

HORRIBLE!!! UTTERLY HORRIBLE. The medical term for it is "bilateral hydrocele". A build up of fluid in the scrotum. I had 1/3 of a soda can worth (120ml). I left it go for 2 years, I figured I was just big. In the end I couldn't walk or even pick up a 5lb box, even sitting down hurt like a bitch. I eventually had to get it operated on...couldn't walk or go to work for 3 weeks, and then 4 months of no heavy lifting. Fuckin' horrible when you're a construction worker.

Yes, it can come back...some men get it 4 or 5 times in their lifetime, its quite common. If not treated it can lead to testicular cancer, or infect your lower abdominal region (which I had).

 

you get blue balls whne you are extremely horny and can't do anything about it. I have had it several times... it hurts like a bitch. If the books dont mention it that just means that a woman wrote it. No blue ball is no legend.
Like too much dry humping without getting a chance to at least be relieved has caused blue balls. The balls are ready to cum but wont... it starts burning, and even masturbation doesnt solve the pain right away.... just have to wait till it goes away.
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the term is widely misunderstood your balls don't actually go blue but it refers to the pain of suspended arousal with a hard one instead of constant or stop and go pleasure but most men don't get it most guys just fake it to get laid more often. your don't get "blue balls" for not getting laid, if we did millions of lonely guys would kill themselves.

 

it wont be to bad unless you start something if u get your hands on it or kinda play with it and stop it hurts like a BITCH. if he gets hard just make light of the situation, make a joke to get his mind off it. AND REMEMBER MY MOTTO. "FINISH WHAT YOU START" if u get him hard you finish it,

 

it wont be to bad unless you start something if u get your hands on it or kinda play with it and stop it hurts like a BITCH. if he gets hard just make light of the situation, make a joke to get his mind off it. AND REMEMBER MY MOTTO. "FINISH WHAT YOU START" if u get him hard you finish it,