i think the gagging thing is a porno thing...i have never done that to a woman on purpose...just a reflex...and she has to be good...no amatures please...
gagging and eyes watering takes out all the fun of giving one if someone did that to me, they would never be getting another bj from me.
If she's a slut I'll give her the white dragon treatment. I'm not a fan of them gagging, but sometimes a fast hard bj is nice to have. Especially when they really get into it and start licking up and down the sides and shit. I kinda like amatuers because they generally have no preconceived notion of how to do it and you teach them to do it the way you like it :H
I wouldnt know, not that i havent had a blowjob... just not many... i've actually had sex more times then i've been blown... kind of strange me thinks, having said all that i opt for the slow sensual as i dont like having sex with people i dislike so i wouldnt want the girl to gag... unless thats what she wants...