BLACK WOMEN - Relationships with white men?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by SeamusHeaney, May 26, 2006.

  1. SeamusHeaney

    SeamusHeaney Member

    I'm wondering if black women find white men to be at all attractive. Most "mixed-race" couples I see tend to be white male/asian female or black male/white female, and I haven't seen many black women with white fellas.

    I've always found black women extremely attractive, but have always been a little more nervous than usual about approaching them.

    Any thoughts? Be completely honest, and don't worry about political-correctness.

  2. Anaconda man

    Anaconda man I am not a hippy

    SeamusHeaney....that name's kinda familiar...

    Wasn't it you that used the N word in the "black cock" thread?

    If so, why would any black girl wanna be with a racist hypocrite?
  3. SeamusHeaney

    SeamusHeaney Member

    Yes, I did use the "N" word, and have since explained that my reason for doing so was to test the hypocrisy of the Political Correctness Thought Police on this board.

    Now, if you can't refrain from ad hominem, just PM me your abuse.

    Now shut the fuck up. This thread was intended for lovely black ladies only.
  4. Anaconda man

    Anaconda man I am not a hippy

    There's no reason to PM you abuse, cause I'm not the angry one, you are you keyboard gangster.
  5. jacobfredjo

    jacobfredjo Senior Member

    i wish i could find me a beautiful smart black african american woman. Gabrielle Union there is super fly. Mmm mm mmm
  6. rmorgan

    rmorgan Member

    I've often wondered how black women feel about all their guys being taken away by white chicks, since it's become not only acceptable to date black guys but almost expected.
  7. DQ Veg


    The last girl I dated was from a country in East Africa. She was smart, cultured, and pretty. Real nice girl, but she wasn't quite as crazy about me as I was about her. Oh, well.
  8. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

    i would say that in many places its still not accepted. people will always have a problem with interracial relationships. i wouldnt go as far to say that its expected of white women to date black men
  9. Dizzy Man

    Dizzy Man Member

    Racial prejudice is sad! (Thank goodness we don't have it where I live.)

    I don't see any point in refraining from using the word "******". If someone is racist and wants to insult a black person, they can quite easily do it without swearing.

    Let me explain what racism is: racism is not one human being being rude to another human being. Racism is the belief that people of different races are not equal.

    Racism is white people not being allowed to use certain words, but black people free to use them.

    Racism is white people who treat black people nicer than other white people.

    Racism is how you feel in your head, not your vocabulary.
  10. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

    Sorry to intrude- I'm a white male-

    If the right attraction is there then who gives a damn about skin color. That this is even a topic for discussion/debate is testament in how far race relations haven't come in the past 50 years. There are individuals in my own family who would have difficulty with my showing up escorting a lady of another race. Their problem- not mine.
  11. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

    exactly. i feel the same way..its their problem not mine. as for me, all of my ex boyfriends are white. im attracted to white guys just as much as im attracted to other races
  12. rmorgan

    rmorgan Member

    Regarding the "N" word:

    Look, words have power because we give them power. Do you know why nobody ever calls me a "honky," or a "cracker?" Because I don't give a shit.

    An old master once told his student: "if I give you a gift, and you refuse to accept it, to whom does the gift belong?" the student replied "to you, master". So the master said: "Now, if you insult me, and I refuse to accept your insult, to whom does the insult belong?"
  13. SeamusHeaney

    SeamusHeaney Member

    Well I'm English, and here there's a definite negative vibe coming from a lot of black women, unfortunately. There was actually a documentary on it a while back, and lots of black women were saying less than kind things about white fellas. Quite unsettling.

    As for my "belief system", it has yet to come crashing down.

    kjhippielove88, you are bloody gorgeous. Mwah!
  14. BKNYCdude

    BKNYCdude Member

    I want to have sex with a white woman, and someone of Asian decent...not particularly at the same time, however if I have to do this before I get tied down. Never know, might get tied down with one. (fingers crossed) lol
  15. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

    thanks seamusheaney
  16. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    I think it shouldnt matter, you love who you love. Love should be clolour blind.

    I dont know though, because I've never really been attracted to someone who wasnt a WASP, but thats not to say I wouldnt be, I just havent been so far.
  17. dtownballer

    dtownballer Member

    i find black women to be gorrgeous but yeah they seem too intimidating to approach
    but i will soon...I SWEAR! lol
  18. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

    i don't know why that is but I've noticed black/asian ;white/asian Black or White/ Mexican and it's mainly White, Black men with Asian Black White ladies and Mexican men with Black or While ladies. (When not with there own race.) The Mexicans don't seem intimedated by the black ladies. Maybe you should watch their game lol. (Teasing) I think it's scarry to approach people that are different. People don't have to be racist just sheltered. City people that are exposed to differen culures and country people don't have the same quelms about mixes as we do in the burbs where we can blame class an edjucation.
  19. zigzag_rabbit

    zigzag_rabbit Member

    ok, this white hippie dude has got to put in his 2 cents. on thursday i'm going out on a date with a lovely black girl. i guess i got lucky 'cause the race difference didn't even make us blink. wish me luck all :)
  20. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

    Luck. I don't know why it makes people blink. I think it makes people of thoses races blink. When a man dates outside his race he's a race trator and when a lady dates outside her race she doesn't respect herself as a person. (These are not my opinions just things I've heard people brave enough to tell me these things.) If you don't think along these lines then life should be close to perfect.

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