My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years. Latley whenever i give him a BJ it takes like 30-40 min for him to finish. This sucks for me cause my mouth gets tired, my neck starts hurting and it makes me not want to do it as often cause it takes so long. It used be maybe 15 min tops. Does this happen in every relationship that lasts a long time? Or can I do something to make it go faster?
I've def. had it happen with guys before that at first they cum quickly, and after a while they take longer. I guess the excitement of having a new girl sucking them off has worn off lol...this is a pretty big time difference (15 min to 30-40 min) but I don't think it's all that unusual. (I often try to drag blowjobs out for as long as I can, so I may not be the best judge of this lol) Are you using your hand too? That's usually a good way to speed things up. If you really want to just get it done, basically just give him a handjob with your mouth around the tip of his cock. Switch to just your mouth for about 30 seconds every couple of minutes to change the sensation for him.
The older I get, the longer it takes both with BJ and intercourse. Used to take about a nanosecond (HS), then a bit longer (college.) Now 'bout 10-15 minutes. Suggest you get him into your stuff first - I notice that I come a lot faster when I get done with a good amount of pussy yummy. Maybe its the taste, maybe the smell, maybe just the pressure of two wonderful legs squeezing my head - whatever, I'm ready to roll then!
I've never had that issue. The first time I had sex I didn't even finish, after 45 minutes, finally just gave up. I was like, wow, that was overrated. With head, it depends how good she is, I mean it's much better than sex in my opinion, so anywhere from 5 minutes if she's amazing to 15 minutes if she's not very good. But... it should be like 7-8 minutes. I don't get these guys who just cum immediately like they're so amazed OMG wow a GIRL is touching me, haha. I never understood that. I've never finished from sex in less than 30 minutes.
Wow, I'm exactly the same way. I fucking hate it, I can fuck for hours with no problem at all, makes girls think their not good. The only way I get off with a girl is if I jack myself to the point of cumming than let them take over.
haha, yeah it's actually really annoying. It's funny because I hear girls making a big deal of guys who can't last long enough, and I was like, "Well, how long would you like him to last?" They say, "Sheesh, even 10 minutes would be great," and then I laugh and I'm like wait WHAT?! Ten minutes?? Guys can't last that long? It actually is pathetic in my opinion, I mean it reminds me of like a 13-year-old guy who busts a nut just looking at one exposed boob or something. It's like come on, it's just sex, it's not that great. Most of the time with sex it feels good to me, I enjoy it, but it's not enough to make me cum, it just doesn't feel that great. A blowjob is like amazing, the best feeling imaginable, even a handjob done well is better than sex, at least as far as making me cum. There's more control there. A vagina is just a hole to thrust into, it doesn't have a lot of ability really, not like a mouth. One girl I had sex with it was pretty darn good, that was like 15 minutes, but I remember one time a bunch of guys were sitting around talking about "their first time" and how "nobody can last more than 2-3 minutes and any guy who says he did is LYING!" Uhh, no. My first time is nothing to brag about, I didn't finish at all! It was not good. But we went at it for like 45 minutes before I was like, you know what, I'm tired, this isn't worth the effort. It just wasn't that impressive. Watching sex, though, god that's boring. I can't understand guys who jerk off watching people have sex, it's like watching paint dry to me. It's just freakin' boring as hell. Oh wow, thrust in, thrust out, see hairy guy ass, see girl ass, maybe some boobies, oh ok now they're doing doggie style. It's like *yawn* can I close this video yet? Watching blowjobs is super hot, watching footjobs is super hot to me, but watching sex is freakin' boring as all hell.
It depends how good you are at giving a blowjob I guess. When I first started to give them to my BF they would take longer because I didn't have any experience giving them and wasn't sure what felt good and what he liked. Now that I know what I am doing and can pleasure him in many different ways they usually don't take too long unless I want to drag it out to tease him. My boyfriends told me that some girls he's been with just don't know what they're doing and it's nice and all but they couldn't get him excited enough to cum and that's really what matters when giving head
Haha, that's fucking hilarious, I've been through the same exact situations. I never got off my first time having sex either, and we did it for over an hour. I agree, blowjobs are soooooo much better than sex, I mean sex is alright, but it's not all it's hyped up to be. I could never understand how guys can get off in less than 10 minutes let alone 30. The first girl that makes me cum just from sex gets honors lol. Believe me, I've been with some incredibly wild girls, with lots of experience, and it hasn't happen yet.
Who says it has to be sucking all the time. I love it when she sucks me, strokes me, licks me, all in a very seductive and sexy way. Want to make him cum faster? Try masturbating while you suck him. He'll cum in no time when you orgasm with his cock in your mouth if you don't bite him in half.
Foreplay is not just for women. If a woman pays attention to his nipples before moving downwards she will spend less time on his cock. BTW, I don't consider a non-orgasmic BJ a waste of time, just another forplay technique. I rather not cum than her have a sore jaw. (I have other plans for that jaw.)
Dude,... You're awesome! that's so funny... I rember watching the movie Forrest Gump where jenny shows forrest her tits and he shifts his body in an awkward way and then wants to leave. I think he spunked his pants just from seeing the tits. LMAO!
