I have an embarassing problem that really doesn't sound THAT embarassing in context ... I have not been good at kissing for a few months. Once upon a time I was pretty good, but then I had a bad experience (slobbery drunk guy who put his tongue in my ear, etc. ...) and have not been the same since. Oddly enough, I have no problem with sex, but when it comes to simple kissing I get scared (sometimes even panic), freeze, and can't do it. I'm pretty sure this has something to do with self-esteem and/or trust issues, but I would really like to get over it. Any advice? Thanks, and peace! - K
Hmm, perhaps just try and think while it's happening, or when you know it will, that this guy isn't like the sleeze who did that to you, and everything's fine. I know that sounds sort of lame, but that's all I can really think of to advise you.
