so far... women... because there is such a stigma about anal for women having sex with men. Men who are open to the idea (aka bi-curious) are at least aware of the process. Many women, in a drunken stupor decide to let it happen & fight it... not like I have plowed 100's of asses, but the few of both I have... that's my reference... My self... I was more apprehensive with my first REAL guy... I was open to taking my former GF with her strap-on... there ya' go...