Bisexuals: Discovering Which Gender You Truly Do Prefer

Hi all,

Old poster here. Just rambling, so don't mind me .

I was looking at my old posts. I'm a 30-something female. There was a time where I thought women were better, because I was struggling with my male partner at the time. I was very frustrated with him. A poster on here thought that I must be a lesbian.

As I got older and have more experience with both genders, I definitely like men more. I have been able to meet open minded men that are okay with my sexual preferences. When I first joined this forum in 2012, I was around very critical people in my offline life. I suppose I felt discouraged by men and thought that I may be happier with women at the time. I was wrong!

Thanks for reading!

 

I don't mind what sexual backgrounds people belong to - its the modern world we live in now - not the the old fashioned era.

 

So what if you change your mind again in five years?

 

I like (really like) sex with men, but have found I can only fall in love (tacky, but you know what I mean) with women ..... who I also really like having sex with.

 

It is what it is then.

 

The people around me were pressuring me to choose. I don't care either if people are bisexual or pan sexual.

 

I have yet to fall in love with a woman. I have only been in love with a man.

 

transgender..

 

I definitely get what you're saying.

Unfortunately, saying I am bisexual alone may not be enough for some people. When I say "I like both genders", that still invites some people to ask "who do you like better? You should know."

I think it's okay to not know, especially when some of us younger bi's didn't have much opportunity or experience. Everyone is on a journey anyway. I am open to the idea that I may have new experiences that change how I feel now.

 

I prefer the D.......

But I do love women....

 

Haha you said it perfectly. This is me..I didn't know how to sum it up.

 

Exactly that. To me that means that it's not important to "identify" as something or other.