Bisexual?Whats you preference?

I am bisexual, and have found that i have a strong preference for woman. I always knew I was attracted to girls, but it was guys that I was confused about. I find more woman attractive than I do men, and I prefer oral sex with women. I feel more connected sexually to women. Is it normal to have a preference based on that? I've never been in love with a women, but I have been with one guy for sure.I'm just looking for others opions here....

 

Im pretty much with you on that. I've always been more attracted to girls, sexually and emotionally. Plus they smell and look better than most boys
I've never been in a relationship with a girl though and I have with a guys. I have been in love but that was with a guy I was with for over a year. I've never had the guts to tell a girl I liked her and since nearly all the girls I like are straight, It's not really a good idea to tell them
So I'm definetly more on the 'gay side'....If that helps

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I have been in a relationship with both men and women before and I do agree with you. I find women to be more attractive in alot of ways. I do like oral better with women just as you do. I find myself checking out women before i do guys.
So all in all it is normal to have a preference based on what you have said. Good luck The Mistress! - I am sure you will find a women to make you happy!

 

I have mostly had enduring relationships with women. I am attracted pretty much equally to both genders though. Differently but equally. I have been weak in the knees, heels over heals in love with only one man so far & had others that have been puppy loves & mild loves. Some of that was because one or the other of us hadn't figured out that we were gay/bi. Well, there are 2 old friends that are straight so that chalks up to unrequited or something. I have had 3 real loves when it comes to females. All of them have been heels over head, weak in the knees. So in general I guess I slightly go for biological females a little more, I suppose.

 

I tend to switch between the two.

 

I like girls better. But, I am married to a guy. I love him, but if something happened withour relationship I think I'd just stick to girls.

 

with a lot of bisexuals i know (and don't flame me this is just from personal experience) relationships with women are ideal, but they "settle" for guys because they're attracted to them as well. and yes quite a few lean more strongly one way or another so you're normal well.. maybe not normal but who is, rest assured that you at least a variant of.

 

preference? it depends on the day and the mood.

 

lmao, i LOVE that!

 

Personally, I've always felt attracted to girls. From a very early age, i found myself having huge crushes on female classmates, teachers, etc. but then I found myself liking boys too and dating them and all that. I've never been in a relationship with a girl, but I've kissed a few and it felt so right....I tend to form really close relationships with females, but most of the time they're completely straight and/or dont really fancy them.
I'd say some days I feel so gay (hehehe) i just keep looking at girls on the street, wondering whether they're gay too. but then I see a nice looking guy and i'd feel the same but wonder if they'd be single....i dont know, it's like i'm just attracted to people in general, like gender doesnt really matter to me. It's hard to explain. Yesterday a lesbian girl asked me "are you a lesbian?" and I said, "not lesbian but open minded"...and she looked at me in a funny way...mmm...wonder why it's so hard to understand this for some people. For me it feels so normal and natural.

 

Truth be told, most bisexuals have a stronger attraction with members of one gender than in members of the other gender. I'm a bi male who's more attracted to men than to women sexually, but in recent years, I've become more drawn to women than to men emotionally.


I attribute this to the fact that I'm over 50 and have an increasing need for emotional fulfillment as I grow older. I'm in the 20th year of a long-distance relationship with a French-Canadian man in Montreal.


After two decades, I love my boyfriend dearly, but because he has Asperger's Syndrome, a form of autism which robs him of the ability to read other people's emotions and to express his own, there are certain levels of intimacy and emotional fulfillment that I can't share with him. And that frustrates me greatly, in spite of the fact that we have an open relationship.


Yet at this point in my life -- 12 years after I came out bisexual -- I don't have a girlfriend. I've had little success in forming an opposite-sex relationship.


The problem is twofold:


1) I came out bi after 20 years of being exclusively gay, so I still have a very strong male-oriented mindset; consequently, I'm still pretty much clueless about sensing what a woman wants.


2) The conflict between monogamy and polyamory (Not to mention homophobia). I make no secret of the fact that I'm polyamorous and I've had great difficulty in gaining a potential girlfriend's acceptance of my existing relationship with my boyfriend, for there's no way short of death that I'll give him up. Consequently, I don't even bother socializing with straight women.


Frankly, I'd rather have a bi girlfriend, so that monogamy vs. polyamory is less of an issue -- and that homophobia isn't an issue at all.


-- Skeeter

 

What you said describes me. I prefer women and I think women are naturally good at making love. I think men can be good lovers to but they have to work at it. On saying that the best sexual encounter I ever had was with a man. Other than that one time the women I have had sex with stand head and shoulders above the men.

 

Is it possible that a Woman knows better how to please a Woman? I know that even though I have had some good oral sex from biological Women it is nearly always better from someone who was born a Man. If you have the same bodies you know how to use them the best way, just the fine points of turning them on. If you are working with a different body than yours you have to learn what works, it isn't instinctual or perhaps more to the point you haven't really experienced what the other feels like. Then there is the better ease of communication thing when you aren't filtering between girlspeak/boyspeak.

 

Hm...which sex do I prefer, male or female you ask? Well, I just came out as bisexual a couple months ago (I'm fifteen) and luckily everyone I know if very cool with it. Right now, I have a superb girlfriend, and we have a very strong strong relationship. Its hard to ask which gender I prefer because I have never had an experience with another guy, and I wont have one any time soon unless something unfortunate (knock on wood) happens between my girlfriend and I.

Once I have done something with anotehr guy I'll be sure to let you guys know, haha.
Cheers,
Dylan

 

boys are for fun, girls are for keeps....who's signature was that in again? meh, i prefer women, though i've had far more experience with men

 

i dont put it in terms of more attracted to... i just find that there are more attractive women than attractive men so its easier to get a woman because its what society expects and there are simply more beautiful women than men... its hard to find a secsi man but if one exists and is willing than ide be more than happy to... yakn0.

 

I'm bisexual and I to find women more sexual attrative then men, but I've never gone out with a women. I would love to but I'm always dating guys, there easyer to find (hope that dosnt sound too bad). I love kissing girls a hell of alot more then guys!

 

That doesn't sound bad at all. It's very true that it's easier to find a guy. Bisexual/gay women are harder to find because thier is no way of knowing by looking at someone whether they are into the same sex or not. I've been with more girls than guys (9:2), but I've been in more relationships with guys than girls (2:1). I guess you can say my female friends are into experimenting, but not dating...o well...lol.

 

yeah every girl I've been with was eather using me to get closer to a b/f (now my ex) or they just laugh it off saying they were drunk....

 

I am attracted to both men and women.
I have had sex with both genders. But I have had more sex with men and
( Boys, when I was a teen )
If I had to chose between a guy or girl, I would proubably go with the guy,
College aged boys turn me on! The thought of sucking off a young man again always makes me hard.