Do you think you as a bisexual male is more sexual open then women? Seems like it’s way easier to find a guy to hook up for casual sex them woman?
It’s much easier. At least for casual sex. I think it’s much easier for men to compartmentalize sex away from a relationship.
Yes I do think, as a bisexual male, I am more open, to most women's needs and thoughts on how their daily life may be!
Hollywood and the media seem to have done a fair job of confusing the hell out of us. If one watches nearly any media centered around female characters of today, they are portrayed as modern, take charge, and adventurous. All while pleasing a husband, hanging with their girlfriends, killing it at work, and raising a family. I say bullshit. While society as a whole is more open and freer, the ratio of sexual adventure of women to men seems little changed. Are young women more adventurous? Yes. But once they decide on commitment, marry, have children, priorities change and adventure goes the way of the dodo. I think it's because of any number of reasons, risk not being the least. But for men, risk is part of who we are. We latch onto new experiences from a risk vs gain aspect. The more we gain the more risk we are willing to take on. And for Bi-men, being sexually free is part of what we are. Almost by definition, being bi means being open to variety. In the arena of sex, the gains are pretty freaking awesome, so by being open in mind and body we are able to open up a horde of normally untapped resources of gains. Provided we are willing to accept the risks.
I would agree that it is much easier to hook up for casual sex with a man as a man then with a women.Ive been sexually active since I was 16 and am now 48 out of those 32 years I’ve had sex with men 7 of them and women for 25 plus.The amount of partners with men easily trumps women 5/6 to 1 and the amount of sex is probably more as well.My current girlfriend we have sex on average twice a week with men most sessions would average 2-3 orgasms a piece each time sometimes it would take up a whole afternoon and evening.Fuck,chill,fuck some more,shower,fuck again go to sleep wake up fuck a couple more times.So yes 100 percent gay sex was much frequent and much easier to have then sex with women as a bi male
I agree too. For me and the guys I've been with we know why we're getting together so there is no pressure, no drama, and no pussy footing around. We get naked and have sex hoping to please and be pleased whereas with a woman...that shit ain't happening so perhaps women are right..."All men are Pigs"...lol...We certainly can be. Hell, my present wife has called me a "Cum Pig" several times while being present while I sucked 2-3 guys off for multiple loads to swallow.
Being also a closeted bisexual man, it definitely is easier finding other men in the same boat..(Im sure Ive been lied to in the past as conveniently every guy Ive met has said "me too" "same here bro" etc as Im not naive) But for me once you get behind closed doors and those clothes come off, the nervousness subsides and as soon as hands begin exploring, I realize the man across from me is dealing with the same urges and cravings, giving up trying to understand or figure them out, just knowing the struggle and that even though we have a lot to lose, we are powerless over the compulsion and it brought us here..So as long as its a quality person, I can relate, sympathise, and understand what they are going through as they understand me as well..Its not that we just "want" to be there...We "HAVE" to be..Creates a connection and understanding that this man needs and wants the same thing I do, so its easier to connect than with women because we relate to what the other is going through..Just my 2 cents
Most women, in my experience, need an emotional connection. It's rare to find a woman that has sex just because they like sex. First time my wife cheated on me, I asked her if she loved the guy. She said, "Love? Like in love? No. I'm just in love with his dick." I couldn't wrap my brain around the fact that she didn't love him. Just enjoyed fucking him.
The world could be on fire and you'd never notice because you're so into what's going on and thats all the matters at that moment...Cells phone on vibrate because it can wait!
I don't know why the double standard hasn't been brought up yet, so maybe I'm missing the point. But doesn't it explain part of the reason. The more people guys bang the more of a man they are. A woman does more than kiss a guy on the cheek and she's a slut. So of course men are more adventurous. it is encouraged of men. Women are judged and shamed for being daring sexually, and not necessarily by men. I guess this equation changes when you throw in same sex fun. Thoughts?
Both my wife and I are bi. When she gives me a hand job we both get naked and we go butt to butt with my cock up against her pussy and me laying down. When she jacks me off she says does it look like I am jacking my own cock? Would you love to suck my cock and drink down my cum?. I tell he if she had a cock it would have a forever home in my mouth and up my ass. We are both faggots i guess. And oh yes much more open both being bi.
I think so. I've been with many men and women. All women I've been with were limited in regards to what they were willing to do sexually. All men I've been with would want me to do some sexual act, and I would be open to doing it (but nothing like a crazy fetish, thank goodness).
sure... cos guys can without much emotion, because guys are almost always horny, and because it is soooo much simpler and less complicated....hehe Simon
Simon I must agree wholeheartedly. Except for my wife sex with women in general have something emotional connected. And in many cases it is not a favorable experience. I have told many people that living with my wife is like living with a guy without a dick. How many guys, when asked to eat the pussy, and you begin away from the clit to get things started have been told, "I am not one of your old girlfriends I don't need your fucking foreplay. Just lick the head and lets get this thing going."? No emotion here, when I need a blow job I just ask, "how about sucking my dick." And that actually turns her on. And since we are both bi she will say to me, "suck my dick." Just to get the juices flowing. So yes we are both bi and both very open sexually. My friends go thru fucking agony and have consistent blue balls.
You might be called "easy" I hardly ever turn down any guy! See my legs there alway open, you want to see the other side all you need is to aske!
I consider myself try-sexual.....Ill try most things at least once. Very open minded. I've only had 2 women that just wanted sex in one night stands. The other women wanted an emotional connection. My ex wife was a hotwife for about 6 months meeting her bull a few times a month. After their last time together wife and I are in bed and she started crying. She confessed that she was falling in love with the guy. HOLY SHIT. We put a stop to her playing right then and there. With my current wife she didn't need the emotional connection to my friend that was in our MFMs. She just wanted an additional cock to play with. After one such MFM he wrote her an email describing his desire to just be with her one night. I told her to pick a city half way and have a good time. She didn't. After our last MFM I felt like they were developing some real feelings for each other. It showed in their lovemaking. Wife then informed me that we couldn't see him again, and we didn't. I guess that was a good move on her part, but I sure miss those hot times.
