A little embarrassing but here goes. My birthday is on Sunday and I’ve really been wanting to expand what we do. I’m pretty into BDSM and would like to be dominated once in awhile. My fiancé has less experience with sex, especially his own sexuality so while he’s interested it’s not really something he’s experienced. We’ve done some normal stuff and I’ve mentioned to him I’m interested, we even took that online quiz where it gives you your results together and we’re into the same things I just don’t really know where to begin. I’m wondering if there’s anything I could do or say to get him into the mood on Sunday to have some extra fun? He’s worried about hurting me or being mean but I really want him to go for it Sunday. Any scenarios or things we could start with that we’d both be comfy with? We’ve talked and we’re both comfortable and trusting we just don’t know where to start haha
Communication. Have a safe word so he knows what is too much. Encourage him to do more if he's afraid to push your limits. I know as the submissive party you probably don't want to feel in charge, so maybe beg him to do what you want instead of telling him what to do. Since he's new to this it will probably take some time for him to get comfortable and build confidence
Have him tie you down and with 2 dildos and a vibrator, one in each hole, make you cum but don't stop. Continue the vibrator and dildo fucking until you cum several times.
The ropes / domination thing can be exciting. He must have a fantasy which you could use to incorporate some bindings. Without knowing him it's difficult to say. But unless he's really into it, you're not going to get much pleasure being dominated by a bunny rabbit when you need a bull.
