Ok so me and my SO has had some (a lot) if issues with sex we have recently over come those obstacles but now she wants me to try and go down on her but she has a big fupa and a lot of fat around her vagina opening. I can’t seem to find her dang clit there is jus to much there is there a better position or something that will make it better Accessible?
You might try using a yoga foam roller. I use one one just under my hips to lift me up for my husband's back.
The big girls I've been with I've had to really stretch them open with my hands while I'm on top in the 69 position. That clit is down in there so dive deep, you'll find it while giving her mouth a good fucking.