BI - Things I Don't Understand.

I can't seem to understand the concept of being bisexual. I mean, are bisexual people REALLY attracted to both sexes? And will most bisexual choose a person to be with? Sorry about all the questions, just bisexualism confuses me

 

im bi but i like girls more then guys and as far as being with some one liek in terms of forever im really into having a wife and some kidds but untill then i see no problem in foolin about with some good mates

 

I consider myself bisexual as well, but I don't like men and women equally: I like women a lot more than I like men. When it comes down to it, I like feminine characteristics. So I fall for mostly women, but i'm attracted to men who have feminine characteristics as well.

Perhaps you're looking at bisexuality at a wrong angle. I always thought that the Kinsey scale made sense: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Scale

 

i see it as liek a number line type of thing like 0 is waire u like em bothe equil and liek streight people are at like 100 on one side and full blown gays are on the other and i well i fall more twored streight but still kinda gay

 

I prefer both at different times. I have no interest in being in a relationship with another man, just the sexual aspect turns me on. But I love women too, sexually and relationship-wise.

 

i think im like a 3 or a 4 but probably more a four cause i like guys more than girls most of the time but theres occasionally that difference where I'm more equal than homosexual
btw this is on the kinsey scale:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Scale

 

The only problem with the kinsey scale is it doesn't take into account the big transgender question. Which is why I have a very hard time giving myself a number on the kinsey scale, I'm very attracted to trans people

 

You should read the book "Bi Any Other Name".

Very good. One of the only books that really talks about the bisexual lifesytle.


-Jen

 

This is my experience also. I find most women attractive, but few guys. The ones I do find attractive are the ones that I think are cute, somewhat effeminate. I don't mean drag queens. Just pretty. <(^o^)>

 

Just like with completely straight or homosexual people, there are a multitude of different kinds and levels of bisexuality too. For instance I'm a bi male. I've never been attracted to men romantically but it could happen some day I suppose. I've been married though and have had other serious relationships with women. I'm attracted to most any woman if I find her sexy but although I can appreciate an attractive man, rarely do I look at a man sexually. I can however become very aroused by looking at a nice penis and it must be connected to a man who's not extremely overweight or to whom I find unattractive for other reasons. He need not however be an Adonis. If I like a guy and I know that he's sexually receptive, that's enough for me.
And although I make love to an entire woman, with a man I'm generally making love to another penis. I guess I just enjoy having a dick to play with besides my own!
That's the kind of bi-guy I am. Your results and mileage may vary....

 

That's where I am. If I am with a male friend who is as you say sexually receptive, I can get into it. I don't want to make out with another guys, but stroking, rubbing, licking, and sucking on a erect penis excites me. With women however, I like full body on body contact. <(^o^)>

 

bi sexual is just a label, like everything else in this world...

to pretty much sum it up, it's just being sexual regardless of gender, love and sex without boundaries.

 

I dunno. I suppose being bi works better in an open relationship; kind of like having your cake and eating it too. But, it comes down to who you love. I'm absolutely in love with a guy, so if it ever comes to monogamy, I'll never touch a woman again. If I was in love with a girl, it'd be the same deal. You don't pick a side beforehand, it's kind of put upon you.

 

When we were first married, Val and I fooled around all the time. We had 3sums, ffm, mmf. I encouraged her to have sex with whom ever she liked. I did the same. Over time we settle down. We had a couple of friend we fooled around with over the next 10 years. One of them died in a car accident the other moved out of state. With rare exception it has been just the two of us every since. We just never found anyone we were that comfortable with. I do miss it, however, Val in I have good sex togather. I can push her buttons sexually speaking.
<(^o^)>

 

Sometimes when sexuality comes up in a conversation and I have to admit I'm bisexual, I worry that the other person is going to think I'm using "bisexual" as the politically correct term for "slut."

Sometimes I just wing with the ridiculous comebacks. Let people dig their own graves with the jokes. They're always cracks about S&M or threesomes. And the insecure ones often flatter themselves with the notion that I'd like to get into their pants, stat, because all pussy is good pussy, right? Wrong. I'm not going to complain, I'll make them giggle like schoolgirls, but I'm not going to jump at easy game. It's all in the chase. I like chase too much to ever jump in too quick.

While I could hypothetically fuck anything with legs, I'd rather not. I am just as likely to fall in love with a woman as a man... If not more so. That's all it is to me.

 

yes, bi people are REALLY attracted to both sexes. I consider myself open to sexual adventures, whether male or female. Both genders can make me feel good, why would I just let society dictate which ones I can be with. I want both.

 

I consider myself to be bi-curious...simply because I have only gone so far as to kiss a girl. So I can't say I really AM bisexual... But mostly, I like guys... rather... I like penis. Girls are just so hot... Idk. You could say I'm confused

 

personally straight----but my best girlfriend and mother of my child is bi----soo years ago when me her and her girlfriend all lived together i asked her----wats up with this bisexual shit? shes like well you know i grew up in group homes--im like yeah---shes like theres nothing but bitches there--im like yeah--so we experimented i liked it--now i have a boyfriend a girlfriend--i have everything----------

 

There are SO many different orientations and preferences and possibilities that to try to pin down anyone is futile. Sexuality is fluid and should be treated as such. That said...

Yes, bisexual people are attracted to both sexes, but in different flavors and amounts and ways. I, for example, love looking at women but I have never fallen in love with one. Men and their naughty bits kind of gross me out but they have such great personalities that it makes up for it. I am sexually submissive when with men, but sexually dominant with women.

Yes, Virginia, there are bisexuals.