Bi-Guys Have you ever been asked by wife or girlfriend if you had ever sucked a cock?

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  1. BoyToy69

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    Exactly how we see it. We were both swingers before we met, so that was just another great match we found out we had. It's all about fun and exploration. Life is way too short. Haven't been able to do anything since this pandemic started. We'll see what the far future brings.
     
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    Although I have been seeing men for a few years now I did suck a lot of cock during my junior high and the first of my senior high school years.

    Now while she never asked, I have told her before that I had some experiences growing up, and I just recently mentioned it again just to see if it peeked her interest. So far it hasn't.
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  3. Poplo.

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    I began sharing my wife with other men after 20 years od marriage and I got to watch her many times with a lover ( oh I just loved watching) it was one of those times that my wife asked me to join them at first I hesitated but I was so hot I said ok. I thought at first we were both going to fuck my wife but I found out deferent. I ended up sucking her lovers cock and loving it as my wife watched and edged me on. My first but not my last.
     
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  4. LowHangers

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    I was never clearly asked if I had ever sucked a cock but while giving my present wife instructions on what I personally enjoy while she was sucking me, she asked "How do you know so much about sucking dick?"...I blurted out I've sucked more than a few so I know". Oooops, cat's out of the bag now but it turned her on.
     
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  5. maturemale3346

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    Yes, and I answered honestly. This was many years ago, when we were first together. I wish she'd ask again!
     
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    yes, she read some book about all the questions to ask before getting married. This was one of them - told her yes and then found out she has been with other women too
     
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    She didn't ask ... I told her
     
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  8. SantaCruzRob

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    The first time my wife to be saw me I was naked at a swing party, with a cock in my mouth. So asking me to suck cock for her was easy. :p
     
  9. BoyToy69

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    What great memories to share with friends and family! lol. That is definitely a nice way to meet someone.:D
     
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    Many years ago, I had a brief affair with a neighbor's wife. She was a hairdresser and had her own salon away from her house, she even gave me a blowjob in one of her chairs one time. Anyway, she asked me if I ever sucked a dick. Unwilling to divulge to her that I had I answered no. She then says she's been trying to get her husband to suck a dick with no success and was hoping I would do so for her. She tells me she has several gay male friends wanting to suck a married guy's cock. She is wanting to see it. So, I agree to do so. The following week she calls me to tell me to get to her salon, there's a nice dick waiting for me. I get there and when I walk in, they are both sitting on the couch across from the barber's chairs and this guy stands up, looks at me, then looks at her and says, "Good choice Leith...we've sucked each other before"...Well, her eyes opened wide, jaw dropped, and says to me "I though you never sucked a dick before?"...I say "Guess I lied". He and I proceeded to suck each other's cocks for close to an hour as she watched and worked her pussy with a massive dildo.
     
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    Omg, this made me smile through the entire story! Along with my mind running wild. Thanks for sharing!!
     
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    Right after my wife and I started "dating" she asked if I had any deep dark sexual secrets. I confessed my frequent suck buddy from back in HS/college. She seemed taken aback and thought she might dump me. She didn't and over time would ask questions about it. Started occasionally watching gay porn and it really turned her on. During MFMs with our good friend she wanted to see me suck him. I wanted to but friend was as straight as an arrow, and didn't want to screw it up. Afterwards she thought it would be cool to find a bi guy for a MMF. COOL! Never found the right guy. :(
    So we settled for getting a nice lifelike strap on having me suck "her" and pegging. During those sessions she'd frequently comment that a real cock would be better. Never got the real thing, and these years later if she knew that I was still thinking about it.........probably the end of the marriage. We've now been sexless 4 years, so,why should she care?
     
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    Great start, not a great ending. Sorry to hear. We've been looking for years now. Same thing with not the right one, not trustworthy enough, and the most common is long distances. Last couple years it's been covid keeping us from doing anything. Yet, the years keep ticking away.........
     
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    It was partially fear of this question, but also wanting to start a relationship with honesty, that I told my last what-would-become girlfriend before we had sex that I was bisexual. Through my own speech that I had prepared, and her many questions, I ended up revealing 100% everything about everything I've done with many many guys over decades. I did it because I just didn't want her to experience intense pain down the road when the truth came out. I couldn't stand imagining the feelings of betrayal she would feel. She ended up being accepting of my past, and we were together, on and off, for three years. She was the first woman I had sex with (except for a prostitute once), despite many first, a few second, and a couple third dates with women, since my first girlfriend broke up with me and broke my heart 24 years prior, an event that started my gay desires and activities. So she was the first and only person I've come out to, besides two therapists. I don't regret coming out to her, and would do so--and will do so--again.
     
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    My wife and I had plenty of talks about me sucking cock. She love watching me there was no draughts about it. We often compared notes about it. as to when you start using your tongue when sucking.
     
  16. BiMature56

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    Yes... Several times..
     
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    How did you answer?
     
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    One time when my wife was shit faced she said she wanted to see me do it. It was the same night she admitted to folding another girls pussy in a hot tub. I didn’t tell her but it was funny because I had slept with that same girl in college . Then the same girl moved next door to my best friend and we see them often
     
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    I only had one gf ask me (one that I can remember). I said no. Probably should have said yes.
     
  20. Icanlikeboth

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    I am afraid no matter who asks me if I have ever sucked a cock, I would NOT be able to lie credibly or keep a straight face. So, I hope no straight friend or acquaintance ever does ask me....
     
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