Bi guys and their (guy) bosses/on the job "hookups"?

Just curious if any bi guys here were seduced by their boss (or the other way around)? Any instances where you went out "for a drink" after hours and "BANG!" the two of you were just going at it all hot and sweaty? Or-how about a guy/guy "quickie" at the workplace? Your experiences/thoughts?

 

That's one I've never done; I never hung out with my bosses like that, never had sexual thoughts about them. One of the resident gay dudes blew me in the men's room after bugging me about it damned day. He had bragged about how good he was... and he wasn't all that good and that should tell you something since I don't believe there is a such thing as a bad blow job.

 

KDaddy 23: "All SHOW and no BLOW"? That BJ really had to be BAD-----or------at the least-"LACKLUSTER"!

 

For me to call it bad? Yeah, I've had first-timers who were afraid to suck dick do a better job of it. Lackluster would have been an improvement. He set gay cocksuckers back about 50 years with his sorry performance. Total drama queen, too; acting like he was choking and gagging... with just the head in his mouth and when I finally did cum? Oh, my dear and fluffy lord, he performed so much that I just zipped up and walked out without saying a word.

 

Dang! Talk about baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad! If this guy thought he was the BEST at bj's-yours truly would just look down and say: "If you're the BEST------I PITY all the REST!"

 

There's a danger when you brag and talk shit: Someone is eventually going to call you on it. Time to put up or shut up; time to shit or get off the pot, homey. He tried to explain himself; tried to apologize and had the nerve to ask for another chance, which he didn't get. Even offered me his ass to fuck which I did consider for a moment, but you do not ever reward bad performance.

 

KDaddy23: The old saying goes: "Those who appear to be quite eager to please are usually the ones who offer the least"; I think that often a "braggart" is-sooner-or-later-going to be "called out" and seen as the lying fool he really is------that this guy was bragging how GOOD at he was at bj's-I think-tells the story well-----if you feel the need to "exploit your talents" chances are that you are-in reality-offering little or nothing------perhaps his ass would be good for a tight fuck-but-as you stated-why reward a bad show?

 

KDaddy23-------did you get to ENJOY any other encounters with guys while "on the job" that tilted the experience to the worthwhile?

 

A couple of times. Came from guys you would never suspect would have a love for cock... and Black cock in particular. I was at the urinal paying my water bill and just as I was finishing, the guy next to me asked, "May I?"

I hadn't realized he was there until he spoke and I asked, "May you what?" Instead of him answering me he leaned over and took me into his mouth and we wound up in a stall with him sucking my dick like it was the finest food in the world. He was an amazing cocksucker and had me cumming in his mouth in short order.

The other time, the guy actually tried to seduce me, which was laughable but we did spend our lunch hour with my dick buried in his ass.

 

KDaddy23: Talk about your bonus "job perks"!!(or-if you will- "fringe benefits")

 

When I said a couple of times, I literally meant that. I never believed that you can't have sex with a coworker without it going horribly wrong but I would never call them perks or fringe benefits.

 

KDaddy23: I hear you; I guess it all boils down to what other guy is looking for sex at the workplace-will the experience be worth it-could such sex later transcend into an issue where it's all too risky and/or just not worth it-for both guys------is this just a "quickie" workplace thing or could it be the start of a "relationship" that also takes place after hours----------is it all worth it?

 

I would dare to say that any time you can get your rocks off, it's worth it and if you never get caught, you can't get in trouble. It could be a quickie or it could be the beginning of something more but if it starts at work, then be smart enough to keep work and whatever else you're gonna do separate. When we're working, we must be professional because if we aren't, we just told everyone we work with that we're having sex.

As long as there's no drama, sure, getting sucked off at work is worth it, even if it's to relieve the stress of a really hectic and trying day. Plus getting some at work is supposed to be verboten to begin with and what a thrill that can be knowing you're breaking a rule that doesn't always make sense.

 

KDaddy23: Well the old saying goes: "forbidden fruit always tastes the best"

 

Oh, it most certainly does. Really shouldn't tell me that there's something sexual that you're not supposed to do because I might want to find out what it is. The whole sex with co-workers at work thing is that it's not going to be a problem until it actually becomes one; it's knowing the environment and who all of the players are and being smart enough to know when to get your dick out... and when to leave it in your pants. Don't think that if you ask to suck my dick in the men's room that I'm going to say no; you don't want to test my resolve or my sense of adventure...

 

"Workplace sex" for bi/gay guys indeed entails QUITE a few risks for certain; are these risks worth "walking on the wild side"? What scenario(s) will follow afterwards? It would appear that discretion is needed in such "on the job" sexual liasons-------------

 

You have to determine if the reward is worth the risk and much of that depends on the work environment and let's not forget that straight folks like to get some nooky on the job, too. What scenarios follow? Who knows? Should there be any scenarios to follow? What would you want to follow? If I'm sucking your dick at lunch time, it's probably not because I'm looking to romance you - I can do that without having sex with you; I want to suck your dick, take your cum, and give you my dick and cum... and back to work. If you read more into this than it being a "just sex thing," well, I can't stop you from doing that but I'm probably going to hurt your feelings if you get to thinking that we're an item now. And if you don't act like an adult afterward, we're really going to have a problem.

Discretion is always a must although depending on the size of the workforce around you, they'll probably figure it out at some point.

 

-----------"Workplace sex" (regarding bi/gay guys) can certainly transcend into a totally different scenario if the workplace "attraction" ends up going beyond working hours and-indeed-could possibly be "too hot to handle"----------

 

Sure, it can but what makes you even think that it's supposed to? If this were you in this situation, is this the scenario that you would have play out? Why can't we just have sex without complicating it? Taking advantage of a unique moment where you're horny, I'm horny and we know what to do about that and... that's all folks. Taking it "out of the office" makes sense; could get too hot to handle but if you've let things go this far, that's on you and it's going to be a mistake you're going to regret.

Which is why most people feel that it's not worth the potential risks.

 

GOOD point-------thinking of "potential risks" certainly injects a good dose of "reality" to what you should and should NOT do-regarding sex on the job; a good deal could be at stake-possibly including "outing" or suddenly finding yourself out of a job-----just ain't worth it----no sir---------