All, I am sure, or at least hoping, that some of you have experienced this as a male when meeting up with another guy for the first time. Again, you've probably heard this: I don't necessarily find men attractive. However, I do get aroused by a penis and thankfully I am open sexually and all-in-all enjoy the physical touch and pleasure of any other person, regardless of sex. My question is that I know how guys smell and it doesn't arouse me, it actually smells not very good to me. This is the same even if they have on cologne. I am excited and anxious to get together with this guy I met and explore my first experience with another man, but I am afraid I am going to be turned off, and ultimately deterred to want to be with another man. Does anyone have any tips that would help a first-timer through this dilemma? Thanks everyone. J
Hi, J I could give you tons of tips that would make your first time with another man the experience of a lifetime, but your delimma about the scent of another man turning you off is new to me. Like you, at first all I wanted was that hard dick, and even now am not interested in a man until I discover that he's interested in me, and then I can't wait to give him all of me that he wants, any way he wants me, as many times as he wants it. But I came to realize, through the many breath-taking sessions of torrid, unrestrained masturbation I enjoyed as I began to prepare my mind & body & soul for my first time with another man, that the hard dick I so desperately wanted to feel inside me had to be driven by the man and his desire for me, so that from the very beginning, I throw myself completely into the man I'm in bed with, embracing the sight & sound & size & touch & taste & yes, the smell -- everything about the MAN he is! Perhaps you could arrange a mutual shower before climbng into bed with him ...
