bf with a small package....

been with my gf for about 7mths, my prob is i have an average to small penis(5in) my gf has never really commented on it but she says she feels me when we have sex, but i really wanna please her, lately she said her and her friends want to go to a male strip club...what does that shit mean to me.....

 

That means that you need to ride high in her vagina. That means that you need to see yourself as more than a dick. That means that she like looking at naked men. Luckly, she has chosen you for the naked man she likes to more than look.

 

male strip clubs are just female fun. It should mean nothing to you. Do you feel like you're pleasing her during sex??

 

like i said in the other forum, its not about the dick. And yeah strip lubs are just a laugh they never mean a sex life is lacking

 

it means stop being so worried, enjoy your girl, enjoy the club - that's all

 

Yeah you should be fine... you can more than make up for your mediocre package with other skills, too - your attitude, your sexiness, skills in manual/oral sex, confidence, etc. Plus, there are plenty of guys with smaller penises than yours, it's not like you're 3.5 inches or something, so I don't think you have much to worry about, as long as you don't lose your confidence and start to underperform!

 

Ya just get creative. Think outside the box. So many ways to please your gf why stick to just one? work on oral skills with her or even non sexual pleasures like a massage or stuff like that. Im gonna be brave and say a lot of ladies would prefer a good massage and oral session occasionally to just sexual intercorse.

 

....from my perspective as an 'older' guy, whose been around the block a couple times, da dude21 is both brave and correct. As for kassa 17 - man, stop feeling sorry for yourself 'causeyour gun isn't a rifle. You know?, I've never measured mine in all these 30 years! What the hell for? It is what it is! Your girl may be going to a strip show to witness some male pride and self-confidence. Better get some quick, kassa17.

 

dude holy shit, I would be pissed if my girl went to a male strip club, but thats just me, Im kind of a goody goody

 

this isn't do too with your package really, you need to define the boundries of this relationship and talk about whats acceptable and what isn't, ask her if shes happy with you (if your willing to hear the truth) and while your at it ask her if she would find it acceptable if you went to a female strip club
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To the original poster....

If your girl ain't complaining, you shouldn't be worrying.

So she's going to a strip club? Whoopdy Shit. If she tells you she's going to a gang bang....THAT is the time to worry.

 

5 inches ain't bad. 5 inches ain't bad at all.

I stayed in a relationship for 8 months with a guy who had a 2 1/2 inch, maybe 3 inch dick.

 

Marry me?

 

Only if you have an even smaller penis.

Penis ain't everything, mang.

 

If you've been together for that long, she wants to be with you because of you, not just your penis. My penis is around the same size and I've dated lot of girls who have been with much larger guys. I used to be overly concerned about measuring up, but as it turns out it's never been an issue in any of my relationships.

I am thinking she wants to go out and have fun with her friends, not necessarily to fill up on the sexual aspect of it. From what I've gathered, when chicks go to strip clubs they have a pretty different mentality about it than us guys. Talk to her about it, be a good sport, ask her to come over or give you a call later that night.

 

Sorry. It was a joke.

 

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Kassa - 5 inches is about average for much of the world, and Chinese women seem to be OK with it - all 600+ million of them.

And there is nothing to your girlfriend wanting to go to a male strip club with her girlfriends. Are you afraid she will see a bigger penis than yours? I don't think the guys strip naked, so she won't see their packages. And a lot of women are horrified by big penises - they only think about how much it would hurt them.

 

yes, because, all 600+ million Chinese women have -only- ever fucked men with exactly 5" penises.
(yes I've slept with an Asian man before and no he wasn't 5", he was definitely larger than that)


Anyways. Like I've said before, size matters to some and not at all to others. Oral skills are, generally speaking, more important towards sexual satisfaction on the women's end anyways. Best bet is to talk to your gal about it if it's really driving you bonkers.

 

Well...it would suck if your SO said they were going to one...but you weren't invited.