Being yourself and sometimes crossing that thin line that can affect your love ones?

Holy crap, it is currently 2:12 AM here in South East Asia and you'll never believe what just happened right now. This smartphone used to belong to my sisters and a lot of her old contact number is still visible on here and being the silly goose that I am, I've pranked called a lot of people there with my cowboy and russian accents just for fun lol. This time I saw an old name - ' Ceci', who I thought used to be my sister's friend and I felt like texting her, so I did and texted, ' Who the fvck are you'? And what do you know man....it was the wrong freakin Ceci, it was Ceci, the Court County coordinator for our district, that my brother used to worked with. He used to be an assistant district attorney, now working defense. My Sister is a lawyer and my family ganged up on me with my parents in my room and both my siblings on video call. Needless to say man, I am officially the black sheep of the family with a target out for me. My mom used this to get all up on my grill on the type of posts I post on Social media, that I should stop talking about politics, religion, spirituality etc I swear my family is trying to censor and control me man. This might be an issue down the line especially with the type of woman I plan on hitching and marrying.

I plan on marrying a very spiritual and godly woman and this might cause some friction with my family. This makes me ponder if the type of goals I pursue in the future might have some negative impact with the people I love and how it will also hurt them. That's why I want to have spiritual and noble goals that can bring positive change to our communities and to those around me but some may go against the mainstream agenda, like for example I want to help Men everywhere by uplifting them socially, physically and spiritually. That may go against the elitist agenda of demasculinizing Men everywhere and If I make it big, they might try to censor me or black mail or some stuff like that. Crazy stuff man. For now makes you think how your actions affects the ones you love and how it's important, if its a trivial matter to make some compromise. I changed my profile pic in my social media to cater to my brother and sister's professional reputation as I'm friends with some of their co workers and I don't want them thinking I'm some beanie wearing hipster with no job. Lol well, that maybe true as I'm Retired Air Force Veteran living off my pension and simply living and taking care of my parents at the moment. I can live a simple life abroad and never need to work again. But I'd like to grow a brand cater to Men and their spiritual and emotional needs someday and tomorrow is a great time to start lol. Here's my current social media pic, of my semi casual brown blazer attire.

 

Veterans get respect, so maybe highlight that experience. Also taking care of your parents is a very Asian thing to do, and admirable.

You shouldn't have a problem attracting a mate. Good luck with that and your family. In the West there's less pressure to be what your parents want you to be.

Be true to yourself.