I've just recently discovered that i believe I'm a submissive. I've always had the fantasy of being raped, but i thought that was the extent of it. After some reading I'm pretty sure it's way more than that. Actually it has taken over my sleeping and waking thoughts. I don't even fantasize about regular sex anymore. Anyway, I'm embarrassed to tell hubby the extent of my feelings. I'm afraid he will think there's something wrong with me or he won't be into it as much as me. For anyone who's ever been in this position, how did you bring it up?