Being honest

I’ve come to realize as I get older I'm more interested in men than I am with women. I’m pretty honest with my feelings but I find as I try to meet men they are not so honest online and some even get pretty in your face. I am type of guy that likes romance cuddling kissing and everything else that comes with it. I’d like to be just in bed naked with another guy feeling and exploring each other. I can’t get into A quick blow job here there or in a public place. Is there anyone else out there that feels the same way? So hard to find people like that these days.

 

I agree I have way better sex w men! I really let myself go w a guy! Sucking cock rubbing cock on cock and getting fucked

 

New to the bi scene and it used to be just about the cock for me, but as time went on, more gay porn exposure, etc, its become more about the man on man for me..Being discreet as in no one in my life knows, that feeling of getting undressed behind those closed doors and letting go is a euphoric feeling I wasnt ready for..That moment when you are both undressed and your hands begin to slide and wander over each others bodies in admiration, its WOW!!
Hot Male intimacy is something to be experienced and I'm looking forward to my continuing exploration

 

Yup. I've gotten WAY gayer over the years. Several years ago the idea of caressing or kissing another man was abhorrent to me. Nowadays all I fantasize about is getting into bed with a man, naked, kissing, caressing, hard cock against hard cock. Women just don't do it for me anymore. I fuck my wife but i need a good long jerk off session thinking about men beforehand so i can be nice and hard for her. I suck and play with her tits for a couple of minutes then it's all about the ass. I don't touch, lick, or fuck, her pussy anymore.

 

Wow yes you hit it on the nail! Exactly how I feel... actually got me hard reading it

 

I was hard after writing it! Hahaha
Seriously though its nice to see there are so many of us out there and there are men who I can relate to

 

Yea I agree unbelievable pleasure I would have never known had I not first tried it and I was in my lat 30s before I knew it was so hot

 

I began my experiences with other guys in my late 20's close to 30 years of age. First letting gay men suck me off since the wife at the time wasn't satisfying me enough orally and within a year I began experiencing mutual oral hook up's with other married men as my craving for cock grew stronger and stronger. For 15+ years my sex life with the wife had great times and then spurts of dry times that I filled in by having oral sex with other guys as I found myself sucking cock 3-4 times a week. That marriage ended after 25 years for reasons other than what I'm talking about. For the nest year I was a cock slut for sure hooking up 4-5 times a week with guys and then I met my present wife. She's a fabulous woman (I'm 56 she is 61) and our sex life couldn't be better. I exposed my past to her early in our relationship and to my surprise she was not shocked, disgusted, nor turned off as she wanted to hear all the details. We've been together 7 years now and we have a sexual relationship with another m/f married couple and my wife and I both agree that as I've aged I need more m/m sex with him ever since I open my ass up to him. He's pretty much the same way. We both enjoy having sex with each others wives but he and I have sex together more than we have sex with them. For the two of us a cock provides more sexual satisfaction than a pussy does, we still enjoy pussy but we have better and more intense orgasms when we have man sex.

 

Me too, I wished i had started eariler

 

I've never been a "blow-n-go" kind of guy. If there isn't a connection with a potential partner, then nothing is going to happen. For me it's just not fun. If all that's needed is for me to get my rocks off, my hands are more than able to give me what I need.

What I desire from a potential playmate is a mutual hunger fueled by attraction and heated chemistry. That's what invests me. That is what locks me in.

When those conditions are met, then physical contact becomes so much more. I become lit up and playful if not outright passionate. I not only want said playmate I need them.

Everything becomes just more. Im more hungry, more sensitive, and much more responsive. When I'm the aggressor I feed off of working to push my partner right to the edge then pull them back just before they fall off the precipice. It winds me up to see them hang over just on the verge until I'm ready to let them go, tumbling towards bliss in an orgasmic free fall.

Getting there is what it's all about. The light touch in the right place. The hunger fueled locking of lips and tongue at the right moment. The intertwining of legs and arms with the right amount of rub. The needful pressing of ourselves into one another. And all of it built upon the connection established in those initial furtive looks, talks, and touches.

For me it has to be this way. As I am unable to give myself to another without it. And having spent a lifetime as me, knowing what this bi-guy is capable of, in giving (and especially receiving) ... Im worth the effort

 

The #1 instance where I am SO glad I opened Pandora's Box...A world of pleasures I never knew existed..Its just different..So different words cannot describe..So naughty, so sensual, so leaving you craving more!

 

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nto kissing and cuddling I am into sucking rubbin getting fucked eating cum

 

That is a beautiful way of describing pleasures of the same sex. It really struck a chord in me. Especially love the part about the euphoria from leaving the world behind at the door. It makes me that much more confident in knowing I'm on the right track in my journey, and desiring a night of passion with a man. I realize this isn't for all men, but I do wish more men understood this. That way they might not be so uptight and learn to allow themselves a new pleasure in life. Plus it would mean more men for me to choose from!

 

I feel very similarly. I want to remind everyone I've never done anything with a guy, but I don't really look forward to a quickie with a guy or anyone else. To me the idea of sex is very personal. You're opening yourself up in a way you don't open up to just anyone. I need to feel a vibe with anyone I sleep with, and take my time working up to things (and enjoy the working up too). To me good sex is not just sex, and as I grow in the understanding and acceptance of my bisexuality I realize what I'm looking for in a man is coming closer to what I'm looking for in a woman (though I'm taking a break from women at this point in my life).

 

I think I get what you're saying. One of my biggest fear is these aggressive, cocky guys who assume anyone they like wants to sleep with them right away. I frequently get messages from guys who see I have left a comment on a post of theirs who without any introduction want to get right into Kik or ask for my number. I don't want the fun to last only five minutes, especially if it would be my first time. First I need to get accustomed to the situation. I will probably be nervous AF my first few times. A little slowing things down and easing into them will do wonders. Plus why zip through things when you can make it last longer, and use the experience not only to go for it but to stoke each other's fire slowly, teasing the desire out of each other? In this case the journey is definitely as important as the destination. So yeah, if I just need to get off I can do that myself. If I have another person in bed with me I want to have a whole experience and take each other's personality into consideration.

 

I love your post because I totally agree. I want a intimate connection, not just a random hard quickie. I’m new to this and agree it’s hard to find someone who wants romance. I can’t even find sensually romantic porn. Let me know if you would like to chat about our romantic wants and desires more.

 

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I'm only 20 but cock and cum are starting to become big things in my life that I need.

 

Don't fight it. Always feel free to pursue dick and whatever else you desire. Explore it to your heart's (and your hard's lol) content. Embrace all that cock and cum.

 

Oh I will cock and cum are very much needed in my life. Can't stop thinking about it