My mom and I never really got into fights before but these days there's been a lot of friction just now we had a huge blow out. a total all-out fight she threw a friggin coke bottle and her car keys at me because i told her not to corner me and then made distance between us by pushing past her. whatever the details are ugly but whatever it was a REAL MATURE fight for an 18 year old and a 49 year old to have haha i actually feel terrible because i HATE fighting with her sooo much BUT my actual point is that her new favorite thing to say when shes mad is you're not my equal! ok. i realize that you should respect your parents and i do but how can she say that? i bleed and breathe and respect her and help her out around the house and feel things AND im a legal adult how are we not equals? my mom shares a lot of my views.. so isn't it a tad bit hypocritical to say things like "we are all one" and "let there be peace" and stuff like that when youre just gonna come back around and say "youre not my equal" doesn't seem right to me? idk. maybe im too young to understand but my logical little mind is telling me that i AM in fact her equal because i dont believe that i, or she, is above anyones level especially if "we are all one"
You're not her equal. She's like your teacher, you can never be equal to her but that doesn't mean you need to take it. It doesn't mean she's not be hypocritical. My advice, get some real distance in there but for the record, I've never been in that sit.
Sounds like your mom is a typical hippy, saying annoying catch phrases, then throwing little tantrums when things don't go her way I say leave home Axl Rose ran away from home and he became a superstar
hahaha omg. that made me actually laugh out loud.. thats my mother youre talkin about buddy! thats just messed up and yeah theres gonna be some serious distance between us for a little bit.. lol she did kinda smack the shit out of me a little bit but i dodged some. like i said, we never really fought before so this is freakin weird.
