Being above average in size

Discussion in 'Genitalia' started by James896, Aug 22, 2018.

  1. James896

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    Not one to brag about this, and believe me or not, just looking for real, helpful, advice. I'm in the large end of the spectrum, 10 inches to be exact, once wrapped a cloth measuring tape around it at its thickest part, came to 7 inches. Anyways, I find that any women I tend to get involved with is either sent running or just can't handle it, plain and simple. The chemistry can be great, just when we get to the bedroom problems begin to arise. This usually ends up with me going long periods without sex and female contact, currently on a one year dry streak. Is there such a thing as too big? Am I doomed to be single for the rest of my life? I realize I have more than my share of other flaws, but I feel that those wouldn't be dealbreakers. I'm also completely straight
     
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  2. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Never ......be proud of such a beautiful cock. There will be women (& guys) who are not only turned on by such prowess but can manage a cock your size.

    But if you have casual dates and get to the bedroom then I'm not surprised it doesn't work. In this day of internet connections and more open attitudes about sex look for specific sites that deal with 'well-endowed' fellas. I reckon you have to mention/indicate your size upfront; then for a relationship pick from them who are just greedy for your cock and who are more genuine and enjoy a 'full' feeling :)
    I went with a guy with an 11 inch cock once, not sure if it was it was as big in circumference as you, but he was thicker than me and I'm 5.25, so he was probably 6 inch around. He fucked me and it was good, I took it all, a bit sore when he thrusted and came ...we ended up with our feet by our heads hehe.

    So what I've said can apply ro either sex, u don't say if u dabble both ways

    Good hunting, enjoy your prowess, good fucking

    Simon :)
     
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  4. ArtyB

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    I am proud of my cock it as attracted many women,I have found that they get excited by my 9x6.There as been times on rare occasions when they could not handle me
     
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  5. iamjustme

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    I am also rather endowed, but I do not have "porn dick"... which yes can be too big.
    I would not want to be any larger than I am. At my size I can "bottom out" which is painful for the gal and not so great for me either. My girth seems to be about right, or so I have been told it "fills it up more" than average sized cocks. Usually when a gal seen it for the first time they get a little excited and want to experience it, but I do believe if I was larger it would instead make them nervous or even fear it.
     
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  6. LowHangers

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    Yes there is a thing as too big. I'm sure many women enjoy seeing a huge cock, but fear what it will do to them. Men on the other hand tend to desire huge cocks. Makes me glad I'm not bigger than the 8" I've been blessed with as it's pleasured everyone I've been with.
     
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  7. ArtyB

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    For me I have never made it known about my size, there have been women who have been with me and have dicussed it with their friends.When I first met my wife she never knew about me until I fucked her,and it was not a pleasure for her I did hurt her but we got help and advice.
     
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  8. Samuel Wilson

    Samuel Wilson Married Black Straight Bi Male in Dallas Texas

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    Be proud of what you have. There's nothing any of us can do about what hangs between our legs. I say prepare any partner you have, female or male to handle larger cocks. That can go from really eating a pussy well to get her drenched or lots of lube. I too when fully erect am quite large, but going slow, getting my partner well stimulated and wet helps a lot.
     
  9. ArtyB

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    Well said I love getting her wet when she sucks my cock and gets excited I feel a sense of achievement before I fuck her. I have used this approach with most of the women l have been with
     
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  10. Samuel Wilson

    Samuel Wilson Married Black Straight Bi Male in Dallas Texas

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    Awesome. It truly is much better and more enjoyable
     
  11. ArtyB

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    Being blessed with a huge cock as pulled the women over the years and I have a big sex drive.My wife is finding it difficult to keep me satisfied and she as shared me with her cousin,it may feel strange to other married couples but it is working out
     
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  12. Samuel Wilson

    Samuel Wilson Married Black Straight Bi Male in Dallas Texas

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    Whatever works is all good man. Hehe
     
  13. NudistGal

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    The guy I currently see is huge. Personally it's not a problem for me. He's told me though that some women are turned off by it. He said it's been a deal breaker a few times.
     
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  14. LowHangers

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    So how HUGE is he?
     
  15. ArtyB

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    I hope it's not 9
     
  16. Ladylays

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    its not the size of your dick that is the issue it the sex position you are trying to have sex in , well for me I have found that doogy works best when a big size or thicker cock goes in me. once I have gotten use it that way it much easier in other positions
     
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    Doggie position was the favorite position for me and my ex-wife, provided deeper penetration which we both loved.
     
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  18. Panama Jack

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    As far as size, nothing to brag about here,Just over average. That said position is everything for “both” to enjoy. Doggy is best and then I stand at the corner of the bed with her legs over my shoulders hitting her g spot.
     
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    My dick is 5.5 inches erect and I think its way too small. However, I'm sure we have parts of body or personality we'd like to change. Yes, I have a small dick but so what? Nothing I can do to change it, just have to accept it and work with it.
     
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    Read the title as being below average... My mistake lol
     

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