The lack of enthusiasm on my wifes part, prompted my fantasies and desires to try bi play. The other was that it was "the right place, right time". If it wasn't for the fact that I knew things to be totally safe, I would still be fantasizing. ONe thing that I enjoy about my bi experiences is that I can let go and really get into it, giving or recieving. My wife would never let me Really enjoy it. I had to sit there while she "got it over with" I can acually enjoy the feelings and move around as I am getting my cock sucked. I can also let loose and enjoy sucking my friends cock and getting into a frenzy, ending in a hot facial or overflowing mouthful of cum.
Some of the women I dated were real uptight about sex and just uptight in general. I found I was'nt really being myself cause I had to do things with the fear of criticism. I was'nt always that way but the majority of times. With guys I always felt reassured and did not worry,I was just myself and I was happy. And sex was always Awesome! My general attitude now has become take it or leave it. It sounds like you've got a good thing going! Hot!.mmmmmmmmmmm
I've found that men seem to instinctively know how to give a better blowjob than women, at least in my experience.
Men probably know how to do it better because they know how to please themselves, and many people, though not all, are stimulated by similar motions of the mouth and the massaging of the tongue. Guys understand how other guys work is what I'm trying to say.
