Bedding Married Man

I have been sleeping with a married man. I feel bad about it but the sex is so good I can't give it up. He says he hasn't slept with his wife in a long time. Guess all married men who cheat say that. Anyway, I don't expect him to leave his wife or anythng. I don't want a relationship. I just want the sex and loving. He sends me the kinkiest texts and I love that. I know it should not last too long. I need some insight. Am I a bad person?

 

If you just want sex then it sounds like you're getting what you want . . . but I wouldn't confuse any of this for "loving" . . . I bet his wife thinks he loves her . . .

 

By "loving" I meant what is done and said in bed. There has to be some sort of love to pleasure a woman the way he pleasures me. Otherwise he would just be a selfish arse. But when I close the door and he's gone, I do not think of LOVE. Just sex. And yes, I am getting what I want. It's so hot and beautiful... I don't really care about whether or not he loves his wife. That's their problem. I'm not the one who hunted him down. Thanks for the insight, Mr. Writer. But you did not answer the question: am I a bad person?

 

I don't think that makes you a bad person. He's the one that is married. If it wasn't you, he'd find someone else to cheat with.

 

Yes it makes both of you bad people.

 

I would not say it makes you an inherently bad person (as the story isn't over yet ), but the action to cheat on his wife is a conscious decision that is made and acted upon by you both and in that sense you are doing something really bad.

 

I like that answer better then mine.

 

You want to know if you are a bad person? If you are asking you might know your answer.

I have no respect for my ex's slut mistress. Is she a bad person? I don't care if she is or not. I have no respect for the cheating spouse or the one they are cheating with.

That's just my opinion, though.

 

:iagree:

Completely.

Cheatin' moles, somebody blacken both they eyes. -.-

 

The wife is bad too, trust me. No one gets cheated on systematically without their share of dirt. I think OP is the lesser of evils in the melee.

 

lol.

 

You're right, all married men who do cheat on their wife are obviously not getting what they need at home. That is why they look elsewhere.

Number one rule for keeping your man happy - keep his sexual needs satisfied.

 

you are kind to animals.. so you are not a bad person.

 

Probably

 

my eyes are getting bad I thought it read beating married man

 

please write ur intention easy since i am not a native english but could understan all of other users writtings. thanks

 

i hope u get ur answer by reading member,s post.
sex is very pleasur things for every body but we must be able to control ourselves against temptation.
how can be one a good person who breaks the rules?

 

Ash, I will differ from your opinion on this! Spouses that cheat do it for their selfish reasons and needs. It isn't about the other spouse at all. It is the cheater. A spouse cheats for a lot of reasons; saying it is the spouses fault...I don't believe that all. Just my thoughts on the subject.

A spouse cheats...they are 100% the reason!

 

Orison319
Love your reply. So funny, so true, i guess...

 

English is not my native tongue either. But hey I'll dim it down.
Basically I don't respect what you're doing and if I was the unfortunate spouse to find out, I'd break your face to pieces leaving you two black and swollen eyes. =]

That's all.